There is a man who works at the mall I shop at. He pinpoints me as I'm walking accross the mall, his eyes lock on me & follow me as I walk. He knows I see him (he makes it quite obvious), yet he doesn't turn away& he does this frequently. I also shop there often & I can be standing in line when he will lock eyes with me . He does this a lot and has this look of adoration towards me, almost like he's trying to say something to me ? He has a hard time concentrating when I go to pay him& he gives me extra bonus points. Although we're both shy I need to know if this is worth persuing ? I'm older & am just getting back into the dating scene. HELP!
2007-01-02 21:25:46 · 5 answers · asked by MS. T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He only does this with me.
2007-01-02 22:26:53 · update #1
Oh yes, that situation just SCREAMS I want you!!! I think you should defanitly ask him out if he seem to shy to do it.
2007-01-02 21:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that he is SHY and staring is good, and I can definitely relate. I can't say if it's "worth persuing", only you know that. But some things to think about are (1) Whether or not you find him attractive and (2) Is he staring innocently, or with that dreaded 'stalker' stare. Since HE is at work, maybe try and break the ice ("Do you know where I can find...?"). But if you think he is cute, throw some icebreakers at him to see if you want to pursue. You might not want to if he's illiterate or has no personality. Good luck, ma.
2007-01-03 05:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lex P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check on this man first, that he does not do the same and award bonus points to other ladies visiting his shop. If he does then it is only infatuation from your side (he is only being polite to his customers). If he only treats you like that, then he is a potential date.
Best of Luck and you are never old for dating
2007-01-03 05:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Potential date...but, don't waste time or some other lucky matron is going to scoop him up and take advantage of his 'customer service' skills...lol
2007-01-03 05:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have coffee with him somewhere in the mall, you invite him...
See if he can talk and sound intelligent or if he's just a little weird..... Don't invite him to our house until you can learn more about him.
2007-01-03 05:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by musiclady007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋