well my boyfriend did not last very long the first time we had sex. it was my first time but he told me he has done it before. so why did he not last that long?
he made up some excuse about me being to pretty and blah blah. i want to know the real truth! thanks :]
2007-01-02 21:15:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he was too excited, he probably told you the truth. He would be the one who knows.
2007-01-02 21:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by letgo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, don't believe some of the crap answers here, I'm 50, done it more bloody times that I can count yet there is still the odd time I just can't hang on real long.....other times I can't finish the job. We're all different, he will/should improve with practice. And I've been to bed with inexperienced ladies over my time and I can tell you, a lot weren't much good either, but some improved with age!
2007-01-03 05:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it is normal. The more you do it with him, the longer he will last, most of the time. What you really need to do is teach him to make you c u m, either orally, or with his fingers, or preferably with both his tounge and his fingers BEFORE he starts to $crew you. Then, it will be ok if he doesn't last too long inside you. You will be glad he cums fast if you give him a nice juicey BJ too, so your mouth will not get so tired. Go with the flow, it is normal for youth.
2007-01-03 05:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I presume your bf is under 18. At that age he is not an experienced lover. Some guys and girls think that they have sex once and they know everything. For young guys, the only thing they think of is to have the orgasm as soon as possible, so they get their jollies and do not care about the woman. You were probably his second conquest, and he thinks, like all guys, that he is a Romeo, but really he is only a young wannabe.
2007-01-03 05:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Big C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A. He's young.
B. Don't discount your attractiveness. It might take him a little time to get used to it.
C. He hasn't learned how to control his "pace" yet. This will help him last longer.
D. He's masturbating wrong: He is masturbating so that he finishes as quick as possible. He has to learn how to last longer through his "practice".
E. Overall he's very inexperienced.
F. DO NOT make this a huge issue. DO NOT tell your friends about this. These things will make it worse for him and you.
2007-01-03 05:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its probably he's first time or maybe he hasn't had sex for a very long time and it cud also be that he got too excited.u cud also tell him to stay off too much sugar cuz it does make guys last that long
2007-01-03 05:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by tricy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's probably true. He thinks your hot and he finally got you where he wanted you from the moment he met you. He just couldn't handle it. You should be flattered. It doesn't matter if he did it before. That happens to the studliest men. Maybe it's been awhile for him.
2007-01-03 05:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was only thinking of himsel, not you. You are going to have to tell him, gently and nicely, that you want him to make it last longer. He can do that! Don't tell him when you two going to have sex. Tell him when its just the two of you. You'll know when to tell him. You have to COMMUNICATE this stuff to him. He can't read your mind. Just remember to tell him gently and nicely. They can get their feelings hurt very easy on this subject. If he can't make himself last longer, he is only thinking of himself. I would get rid of him. You deserve to be treated good. Good luck.
2007-01-03 05:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by CURTIS TERI C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a little to existed and it was most likely his first time too
2007-01-03 05:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was a new experience for him, even though it wasn't the first time it was the first time with you. Next time will last longer, guaranteed.
2007-01-03 05:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Gods1stThought 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋