I've heard many things about whether or not gays are accepted by God. Looking at the bible plainly, it appears to be wrong to be gay, but when the scriptures are actually researched, what the actual translations were and what the words meant, it appears not to be a sin at all. Anyway, that's not the point here. Though I believe in my heart that God would not condem gays for being gay- just "saying" He did, I have a concern. My boyfriend is Bi-sexual, and yes, he has had sex with another male. No, we are not one of those weird swinger couples, nor do we wish to have 3ways. In fact, he's expressed his desires to marry and be with only me. Now, if God condemns homosexuals, if I married and/or had sex with my boyfriend, would this make me "unclean" and therefore doom me to hell? Or would I be "saving" him because he'd be living a hetro lifestyle? I love my boyfriend. I want to marry him, and yes, have sex with him. But is my soul worth it? What does the bible say about this situation?
2007-01-02 20:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by lisha_baby23 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You're not going to hell, but you may go to divorce court as many bisexuals like to have their cheesecake nad eat their beef too.
Oh, and one more thing...YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A PERSON'S SEXUALITY ANY MORE THAN YOU CAN CHANGE THEIR EYE COLOR.
I mean really, it's the 21st century, figure it out.
The Bible doesn't cover bisexuality. Read Kinsey instead.
2007-01-02 20:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jon A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you wont. But I would like to point out a problem I had. I'm not bragging, but I was dating this really hot bi girl and she was up for a threesome with a hot friend. Well, my stamina could only hold out for so long, and I sat back in a chair while they went at it, and I heard my girlfriend make a noise that I never got out of her when it was just her and me. So you see, the real problem you face isn't about all of this religious BS, it's about the jealousy that comes into a relationship when you open the door for your spouse wants satisfaction but not from you.
2007-01-03 04:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be a sin for you. Not for him, either, especially if he resists his bisexual urges and remains faithful to you in marriage.
By the way, the Bible never says that it's a sin to BE gay. It says that it's a sin to perform homosexual acts. There's a difference.
God very much accepts gay people. He just doesn't accept gay actions.
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2007-01-03 04:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The God that I believe in is a God of love and mercy. I haven't read the bible a lot, but I know that love is in there more than reference to homosexuality!
2007-01-03 04:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but why would you want to marry somebody if they're not going to be faithful to you and you alone?! Your soul is not worth going to hell for anybody. I don't think you would go to hell, but your marriage would be very hard to make work. As long as you are saved and have accepted Jesus Christ as your Personal Savior then you're going to heaven. I would think long and hard before you marry him. If he is not willing to be committed to you and you alone then I wouldn't marry him, its just going to eat at you wondering where he is and what he is doing and with whom.
2007-01-03 04:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't put down anyone regardless of color, sex, religion or belief practices...but if your boyfriend is bi-sexual....then where will the closeness of man and wife come in dear??....That's why you get married.....or at least where I come from it is....to be with ONE...and only one.....
2007-01-03 04:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you go is up to what you know ... Seek the truth not wives tales and imaginary deities.We live in a physical realm; not a meta physical hoax....hell and heaven are merely states of mind
you control them through knowledge if you are smart enough to realize this you will find the truth you are seeking and needing .
peace out
2007-01-03 04:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
no dear you will not.
everyone is different in one way or another, it doesn't mean someone is better or less than just because they are who they are.
I don't think God judges this way honestly.
And people who believe what u are fearing are pretty creepy self righteous one's
2007-01-03 04:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one goes to hell for being gay
you go to hell for sin. All have sinned and deserve hell.
I am thankful that Christ came to make a way for all sinners to receive forgiveness and go to heaven.
2007-01-03 04:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by I_Need_Help 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As to whether or not you will go to hell, I can't say.
But if you do, you are not the sharpest pencil in the holder.
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2007-01-03 04:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋