I'm a guy not in to any serious relationship. My age is 24. I am toooooooooo interested in sex and admire the beauty of women. I'm a smart 'n' intelligent guy, n trust me, have too many opportunities to have sex with many beautiful ladies. Infact my fnds who r gals have advanced many a times n I DID NOT respond positively, as I was in delema as to whether to have sex before my marriage or to have sex only with my wife, life long. Advice me plz, shall I utilize the opportunity n have sex with those girls who r really good, can I have with many without havin any restriction for number of gals.
2007-01-02 20:11:26 · 30 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry for spelling mistekes, advise*. I could not have sex as I was totally focused at my studies and sportz.
2007-01-02 20:14:27 · update #1
U GALS< if you say "save it, r u savin it for your husband too". I'm not sure if the person whoever I may marry, is gonna saved her virginity for me".
2007-01-02 20:18:43 · update #2
No save yourself. My man did the same thing and is very happy he only shared with me and no one else. Be Proud!
2007-01-02 20:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by LSD 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I will prefer that you have a sex with your Wife only, after a marriage, since Virginity is the Best Gift what you can give to your wife.
There are Lot's of reason for it, like if you have sex before than there are the chances that you compare it with your wife and you may not fell good, also chance of AIDS and other things are also there.
The most important thing, Imagine the Girl as your sister and you as some other person, what you will fell ???
Got it ;)
2007-01-03 04:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by devangdani 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin male in my thirties so i understand where you are coming from. First of all you have to ask yourself how special will that moment be if you decide to just do it with some girl you barely even know. Second you need to be sure if you want your future wife to be a virgin for u too. This is very importand and trust me if youve stayed a virgin this long it will matter more than u can believe right now.
Good luck to you my friend and fellow virgin
2007-01-04 14:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your question itself it could be apprehended that you want to be serious on loosing your virginity; which you have stated to be in tact at the age of 24. When you tell that u r tooooooooooooo interested in sex and admire the beauty of women, your serious doubt could be the one that can u have with many without having any restrictions for number of gals, which is only serious in view of the present day hiv/aids. Be careful!
2007-01-03 05:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a nice guy so I'm gonna keep it real. When you start poppin' them cherries you'll loose all your sensitivity towards women. You'll start to think with your other head. Now if you find a special someone and make sweet love to her you may appreciate it more even if you don't get married. So it's up to you. What type of person do you want to be. I'm not saying don't have sex just t protect yourself and respect the other person.
2007-01-03 04:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I feel as you should hold off on having sexual intercourse until you are married, after all you waited this long so why not wait just a little longer? For the record, my husband was 36 and still a virgin when we got married and I would have been a virign to, only I lost mine at 11 when I was being sexually abused. C'mon dude you owe it to yourself and to her to wait and save yourself cause it will be so much more special and meaningful to the both of you, trust me on this one!
2007-01-03 05:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a good and sensible guy who thinks before acting. Good behaviour. Save the excitement for the wedding night. Otherwise, you may feel there is nothing new in it. I know it is not the 'in' thing to be virgin till wedding night, but it has its advantages and it is a moral thing to do. Sex before marriage is immoral. Just wait for some time, get married and enjoy sex with your lovely wife.
2007-01-03 04:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is : virginity is the type of thing you never get back. Don't think about it as one thing, think about it as a symbol. The idea of loving someone so much that you get to give her a gift that no one else can.
Once you do it, you can't take it back. Its way easier to wait than to obstain. Think about how special you want that special girl to feel. AND even more importantly, think about how you see yourself. What do you think of people who have lots of sex? What do you think about the idea of premarital sex? Would you really want to be where someone else has when it comes to the female anatomy?
Although it was a horrible movie, I liked Rules of Attraction for the way the female lead helped herself from having sex. She pulled out a book of STD photos and reminded herself everytime before she went out that STDs are the result of lawless sex. Maybe try that.
2007-01-03 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by drutheta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm saving myself for marriage
you should too
I think of it this way...if you just have sex to have sex...it's like a couch..nice and fresh at first...and then many people use it and it gets worn...and dirty..
I just think that's for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with
and it shouldn't be called sex....it should be making love...don't mean to sound cheesy... but...when you get married you promise yourself to that person...and if you don't believe you'll be together forever...then you shouldn't be getting married...you know
and some may say..don't make a big deal out of it...but it's my body... and i treat it with respect
2007-01-03 04:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't condemn or question yourself for using good judgment. If you want to wait to have intercourse until you are married, that's a very noble thing to do. I don't think you would break any moral codes if you were to involve yourself into heavy petting or kissing. There are many ways to have sexual encounters without intercourse. Without going into detail, there is mutual masturbation, oral sex, for example. If you just want to totally withdraw from all forms of sex, then that's your right and your decision. I would respect you in any case.
2007-01-03 04:20:55 · answer #10 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man who saves himself for the one girl he truly loves and marries is very rare to find nowadays, and honestly i dont think it'll be that long before you do get married and settle down, so y not wait a while more and lose your virginity to the one you truly love and want to spend an eternity with. it'll spare you any unwanted diseases too and keep you safe. you're an intelligent man you'll make the right decision.
2007-01-03 04:36:29 · answer #11 · answered by julia e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋