my and my boyfriend are going though a rough patch and people are trying to get me to dump him and hook up with someone els, EVEN HIS BEST FRIEND! and he's been out of town so i'm thinking should i dump him? maby the flame just isn't there anymore, mabby i should move on.I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-02 19:58:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont dump your bf because other people are telling you to!
if they told you to jump would you jump???
its YOUR Life... just because he is out of town, people are trying to mislead you and your being gullible....
If you love you bf.. then dont break up... or if your going through a bad patch then wait until he comes back and try and talk things out with him.. dont just cheat on him, especially with his best friend... that is so WRONG!
2007-01-02 22:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think things through and weigh them. what are the reasons that people want you to dump him in the first place? are they reasonable? Are they true? How do they know? What are the evidences? What are their motives anyway? And consider how you think about ur bf. Do you really love him? Do you really know him? Just because people keep pushing doesn't mean you should follow them and give in. Don't let them influence you if they are wrong after all. But if they are really right then dump him. Who knows? So take your time to decide and hope you make the right decision.
2007-01-02 20:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? You should really think about it...if his best friend and other people are telling you to dump him there must be a better reason to why they are telling you to leave him. You should really look into this is there something they are not telling you? If you don't love him and aren't happy with him anymore just let it go...if you love him and are happy stay. Do what feels right to you.
2007-01-02 20:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, do you still love him? If you do, talk to him and discuss over the problem, let him know how you feel...
Another option is, try to go seperate ways for a period of time, say for a month, giving more time to chill things.
After that, when both of you realise that you still miss each other, it's never too late to patch things up!
I wish you all the best. =)
2007-01-03 04:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whos trying to get you to hook up with other people?
I bet its someone who either wants you for themself, or they want your boyfriend.
Dont cheat on him, and dont let other people tell you how youre feeling.
2007-01-02 20:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't dump him, he will dump you, and you will be the only member of dumpville, so dump him first, move on, and enjoy your life...
2007-01-02 20:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋