how to manage thing when your beloved can not trust you?

Answer 1

Why have a relationship if there is no trust? What did you do ? Can you fix it probably not but you could earn it back depending on what it is!

Answer 2

Trust is one of the top things every SOLID relationship has. Without trust...well then there is not much.

Its amazing how it takes years and years to build up trust but a few seconds to loose it.

You can try patching up things, and promising that your beloved can trust you. But there is only so much you can do.

Also depends alot on why the trust was lost? What happend?

Answer 3

Please do not confuse others inability to trust you as you not being trustworthy.

Otherwise this fear would turn you into a people pleaser, and that would be detrimental towards your self-esteem in the long run.

You become trust worthy, the moment you start trusting ourselves, that's all. When that happens, the world follows suit, as our personality starts reflecting that trusting nature.

Our first responsibility is towards ourselves, so remaining true to ourselves is our first and only responsibility; for beyond that it all depends on other person as well whether they choose to trust you or not. The same holds true for love and respect as well, it all begins from ourselves.

Answer 4

You can't manage things until trust has been restored. You can build trust, but it takes time and some things may never heal. You don't give us much info.