I dont know what to do anymore-HELP ME PLEASE?

Question

my mum wont get off my back about me finding a job, I am moving to WA and hence I haven't been applying for jobs locially but she wont leave me alone, my girlfriend deleted the nice comments about me from her 360 blog and I enjoy reading nice comments about me because they dont come around often at all, most comments about me are negative....I feel so stressed right now and dont know what to do anymore about anything......I feel like curling into a dark hole and leaving the world until I leave for Perth because I am so so stressed right now, I need ideas to releive stress because I feel as if I want the world to end or something to happen so I can just die and leave the world a bad person that I am.....I am not perfect and maybe some would be better off without me here...

thanks
Mitch

Answer 1

Try and talk to your mom about why she is always saying negative things about you. In the meantime, I think that your mom most likely wants you to be a perfect child because she is ashamed of HER faults. I f this is the case then your mom needs help to realize that you can not undo her mistakes. No one really can but she is the one to try. You need to try and convince her to go to a therapy session. Go with her. Because if you BOTH go then you BOTH can work out your problems TOGETHER.

Do NOT think that the world would be more pleasent without you because you have a LOT to offer it. I'd suggest that whenever you think of sucide, think of your girlfriend or of the college you are going to. If you think of all the good things and forget about the bad, you will gradually get better.

Many people suffer from stress, your not alone. No one is perfect....except Jesus. Try to talk to him. If you don't already, go to a local church. God will help you much more than anyone else. As for relieving stress now, try to write poetry, or read. Try ANYTHING that you think will help you because you have a lot to offer the world. NEVER GIVE UP ON LIFE!!!!!!! :)

Answer 2

to get your mom off your back and as a source of a little extra cash for your big move, go to some of the local temp agencies and sign up. With the extra cash, take your girl out somewhere nice, secluded and quiet to talk about things. Until then, find ways to make yourself laugh, preferably with your mom and girlfriend, if not at the same time the separately. Get outside, go do something active. Go people watching, get lost in a sea of humanity for a few hours. Do some thing positive. I promise you will feel a little better about yourself after you go do some thing positive. When it does work, do a little bit more. Crawling into a hole won't help. It just intensifies all the negativity because.. well really now... what else are you going to be thinking about other than the negative stuff happening in your life? Nothing. You know it and I know it. So don't do it. Go do something about changing the negatives into positives, one little step at a time.

Answer 3

Run, don't walk to your county mental health center as soon as you can get there. (They charge according to your ability to pay.) You are depressed. For stress, try repeating The Serenity Prayer even if you don't believe in it. It works for non-believers also. Long walks are good for stress and depression. Do some little chore for your Mum every day. It might take a while, but eventually you will appreciate you more. Get a job if you are Abel. Sometimes people are unable to work because of their depression. Chain restaurants always need kitchen help. If you only get a job as a dish washer, your Mum will see you are trying. For interviews wear clean clothes and shoes. Cover up any tattoos. Have a respectable neat clean haircut. Remove all pierced jewelry. Be enthusiastic even if you have to fake it. Use your manners. thank your interviewer for the interview. Good luck. You are a worth wile person and you are intelligent.

Answer 4

ur mum is just worried about you.. maybe u could just talk to her, have a nice talk with her, and maybe she could understand that u'll be finding a job as soon as u moved? and maybe u have some problems with ur gf? just talk to her too, about the comments, and why she deleted it off, let her know that it's nice to read such comments from ppl, especially someone u love :) the best way to relieve stress is to start at where ur problems are. try to solve ur problems, all problems can be solved. just take a deep breath and think where does all the problems lie and what u can do about it. when ur problems are solved, reward urself! treat urself a movie or something.. it can make u happy! :) everyone is not perfect, and how bad u are, somebody else is worse, just amend ur ways. everything will be fine somehow. good luck and god bless!

Answer 5

Remember that you're just feeling bad right now. It won't last forever. Don't think about what the world would be like without you. Think about yourself first. The world wouldn't know the difference but you would. There are all kinds of ways to relieve stress. Find some that work for you. You'll be okay. Trust me.

Answer 6

stop it!!!! stop whinning!!! ok...ok.... so your girlfriend erased all the good things about you on her blog. but you do admit even here that most comments about you are negative. ergo...is she right in removing the nice comments? are the comments she first wrote about you flattering but untrue?

and about your mom....maybe you have been telling her for the longest that you are going to look for a job and haven't. so now she just does not believe you anymore.

you say you are leaving for WA, then if you are why are you depressed and wanting to die? if you are really leaving for WA and looking for a job there, your attitude should be ...."i'll prove you all wrong when i get to WA and become responsible"...

so, what's the problem then? right? one day soon (i hope soon for the sake of your pride and credibility) when you are leaving in WA and have a good job, are dependable and responsible and become a nice person whom many would say good things about..... then, at the time, you would have been vindicated.

so, you now have a challenge.....to prove them all wrong! now go and seek your fortune and slay the dragons of misconceptions about you.

Answer 7

Dear Mitch ,
"Did you think that I didn't hear you when you cried out to Me in your time of need?
Truly, I did hear you.
If I hear the final cry of every sparrow that falls in death, would I not hear you?
"Did you wonder if I was listening when you prayed to Me for an answer to the troubles that weighed you down?
Indeed, I was listening.
If I listen intently for the very heartbeat of every baby conceived in the womb, would I not listen when that child prays? I listened, and I remember precisely the instant that your heart took it's first beat; the moment that you took your first gasping breath upon leaving the security of your mother's womb; the contented sigh of relief at your first belly full of warm milk. And, though you've grown up, I still listen for every word spoken in My direction.
"Do you think that I don't know when problems come into your life? I know everything there is to know about you! Even the very hairs of your head are numbered! I've watched you daily, from those first tentative steps and groping words to your very first love; and I was there, cheering you on, though you never knew it. "Did you think that I was unconcerned because you didn't receive an instantaneous answer to your prayer?
My dear child, I am more concerned for you than you will ever know. If I were not, would I have sent my son to earth in the flesh and allowed your kind to mock Him, spit on Him, beat Him, and nail Him up on a cross for all to see? He gave His life for You! He poured out His very life's blood in order to pay a price for your life, and to set you free.! Would I have done that if I was unconcerned?
"Or did you accept the devil's lie that I didn't even exist? Can you really believe his lies when the very magnitude and complexity of the universe bears witness to the unquestionable fact that they are My handiwork? When everything that you can see and not see is a work of My perfection, delicately balanced and timed, from the spiraling galaxies to the spinning atoms? Is it possible to comprehend such an intricate work and say,
"There is no God"?
"Take a good look at yourself!
You are the very epitome of My work!
You are My greatest creation!
A one-of-a-kind human being.
Of the seventy billion humans that have lived and walked this planet, there has been no other exactly like you. I created you perfect! I created you with a hundred million receptors in your eyes so that you could see the beauty around you; I created you with twenty-four thousand vibrating fibers in your inner ears to hear the softest whisper of the wind; I designed five hundred muscles, two hundred bones, and seven miles of nerve fibers, all wrapped in a renewable, nearly indestructible layer of skin and tissue. I gave you a heart that pulses hour after hour, day after day, thirty-six million beats a year, pumping blood through more than ninety-six thousand miles of veins and arteries to give your body life and keep it free of disease; and I gave you a brain that is the most complex organ in all of the universe, made up of one-hundred-trillion cells and crisscrossed with twenty-five billion nerve cells to help you retain the minutest memory; and I equipped your body with four million pain-sensitive structures, five hundred thousand touch detectors, and over two hundred thousand temperature detectors! And then, to top it all off, I gave you the ability to reason, to dream, to imagine, and to speak; things that no other of My creatures can do. And, as a final touch, after creating that magnificent body that you live in, I created the real you, the inner you, the spirit that I created in My likeness, and I breathed you into your body at the instant of birth. "And you were connected to Me then, but you never knew it. Deep inside of you you knew, because I planted that knowledge of Me there, but over the years you have allowed the things of the world to choke that knowledge out. In the beginning, however, you were perfect; My greatest creation; molded in My own image. Don't you find it really quite humorous, to think that some could adamantly believe that this all came about by chance or evolution?
Could such a masterpiece have come about simply by chance?
"If you can see the truth in this, then how can you think that I didn't
hear you?


"Behold, I am standing at your heart's door, knocking and asking entrance, but I will not force My will on you. Call to Me now and ask Me to come in; into your heart and your life. Call to Me, for I am listening and waiting even as you read this. I'm only a word away, and if you will invite Me in, I will come in and never will I leave you alone. Give Me your heart and your love and, as I live, saith the Lord, this day you shall be one with Me in Paradise."

Forever,
Jesus