i got in affairs with my brother in law is it good or bad? n my sister does nt know about us. I m also girl.?

Question

i have affairs with my brother in law my sister does nt know that and i am also a married lady with 2 kids. is it good bad?

Answer 1

Honey, that is your sister, blood at that so why would you wanna risk losing the relationship with your only sister? Why would you do that? Honey, your gonna hate me when I say this but you must go now and tell your sister what you did and seek her forgiveness as God's word commands us to do. Also, God's word clearly states: "Thall shall not commit adultery." I am not judging you cause I have done the same in the old days and it was after losing my grandfather cause it was my way of releasing any anger I had and getting it out of my system, sad way to do it I know and I regret it everyday, but I also have forgiven myself for all my sins I have done and you should to. If it helps at all, say this prayer right now: Dear God, I admit that I'm a sinner in need of your forgiveness for I have sinned against you , myself, and others. God I believe with all of my heart and soul that your son Jesus Christ died on the cross and raised from the dead so that we could have eternal life. God I ask you to come into my heart and to save me from going to hell and to fulfill me with your holy spirit. God I ask you to forgive me of all my sins and transgressions and to renew me with a clean heart and sound mind and to dwell in me forevermore. For it's all this I ask in Jesus's name, Amen. After saying that prayer and truly meaning it, you must then go to your sister and tell her the truth and ask for forgiveness. Time will heal all wounds my dear. Then after doing so God says the only way to have a personal relationship with him is to attend church on a regular basis, reading the Bible, prayer, tithe, and communicate with other believers as well as witness unto others. Another thing you might want to do is go to your brother n law and apologize and he also and tell your husband as well. Sure you might lose the relationship with your sister and probably your spouse as well, but can you blame either of them?

Answer 2

In actuality as far as the most recent research tests have concluded, it does not cause any more birth defects than random births. As far as "the bible" hehe, the bible was written and rewritten over 1,000 times and man wrote it all as he saw fit/and desired at that particular time. Most folks that simply stand on "religion" as their base, has no real base-They don't care what logic or reality proves. A good salesman can sell you a bad car, and "religion" is packed with some decent salesmen that drip charisma as they walk and talk. The original canon(bible) was actually an essay contest held by the elders, the best essays got included into the text and the 'not accepted' stories were forever fought over and some even eventually got into revisions of the bible. It doesn't matter about truth though. "believers" Are going to believe whatever they choose, proof means nothing to them. Good Luck Okay, we are ready for all the thumbs down now--go ahead

Answer 3

You and the brother in law should be ashamed of yourself, Yes, it is wrong, are you a idiot. that is your sister's husband. How would you feel if she did that with yours. You and your brother in law are not good people. I am glad your not my sister. You are not worthy of a sister and the brother in law is also a cheater and probably a liar, just like you. Your sister deserves better than either of you two, and your husband, he most certainly deserves better.

Answer 4

Do you really need help answering this question? You should be ashamed of yourself. You are definitely making some yucky Karma for yourself.....
.... what if it was you that was on the deceived end? Would you be asking? What would your answer be?

Damn, lady. Try setting a GOOD example for the daughters of the world. Its things like this that people never recover from emotionally. ~~~ and to make things worse, its YOUR SISTER?!

tsk.tsk.

Answer 5

All that i have to say on the issue is take it from someone who sorta had a similar situation(difference was i was 11-15yo and mine was more of a seduction by bro inlaw)...
If You Play With Fire Your Bound To Get Hurt!!!
Sorry if i sound harsh but trust me this can only end in pain...

Answer 6

You joking by actually asking that...

She is your sister! Your blood! And you sleeping with her husband! Nevermind the fact that you married and that you have 2 children!

You hurting yourself and in the end you going to be hurting your husband, your kids and your sister!

Yes its bad, its very bad!

Answer 7

i think you know that answer..... you should be ashamed of your self how would you feel if your husband and your sister were having a affair? i do not feel sorry for you. when she finds out and she will some day. and when she does i hope she beats the hell out of you and tells your husband.i hate cheaters

Answer 8

You know damn well that sleeping with your sisters husband is the worst kind of betrayal.

You could lose your sister, your husband, and the respect of anyone that knows you.

I feel sorry for them... maybe you should let your husband sleep with your sister.

Answer 9

Well, i don't want to judge you, but cheating with your sister's husband is bad...very bad.

Even if you and your sister aren't close, that's a very low thing to do to your flesh and blood. You should tell her what you've been doing with her husband. She needs to get rid of him pronto.

Answer 10

Yeah. It's bad. That kind of thing can tear a family apart.

And I wonder why you are asking this. You must already know the answer.