when u can't find ur true love, even though ur a young boy or gurl, but u just want 2 be like every other person at ur school who were or are in love or at least just hav a bf or gf that u like, and may not love, should u chase that person, let the boy chase u, or just let true love arrive in ur life whenever it was destined to arrive naturally?
2007-01-02 19:46:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, so you're a young girl. Very young, it sounds like. First, do not think about LOVE. You and your young friends do NOT know what love is. Just find people who you are interested in and see where it goes. It's OK to just like someone and date them.
So you interested in this boy? Give him a shot. Have some fun. Let whatever happens, happen.
Please stop worrying about what everyone else around is doing or has done. They are not you, you are not them. Live your life, don't try to live theirs.
2007-01-02 19:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you already know the answer to your question! You seem far more confident in saying that you should wait for true love to arrive naturally than anything else. and that's absolutely true! Of course, it's not likely that love will just arrive at your doorstep. If you have feelings for a certain guy, then you should try to show your interest and see where things lead...that's the natural arrival that you were talking about. Nothing starts unless someone starts it!
For now, i know it's tough to see some of your friends in love and you haven't found the right one. But never ever settle for a guy just because you want a boyfriend! you deserve much better, princess :)
2007-01-02 19:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by julka323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just let it arrive naturally. The most important part of being young is finding yourself (blah, blah) which is hard to do when you're switching boyfriends all the time looking for someone else or if you get to the point where you "have to have" a boyfriend. It'll be much easier when you meet Mr. Right if you haven't given yourself (in one way or another)to Mr. Right Now, Mr. Rebound, Mr. There & Mr. Charming
2007-01-02 19:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there such a thing as true love? Im starting to believe what my x told me and doubt that. Its all about the chase and the game. Nothings ever right always something wrong it gets to a point where i can see why so many people just settle and take dr phils advice go for 80 percent what u want. Damn Im tired, I give up!
2007-01-02 19:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need love, love
Ooh, ease my mind
And I need to find time
Someone to call mine
My mama said
"You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
But it's a game of give and take
You can't hurry love
No, you'll just have to wait
Just trust in a good time
No matter how long it takes "
How many heartaches must I stand
Before I find the love to let me live again
Right now the only thing that keeps me hanging on
When I feel my strength , ooh, it's almost gone
I remember mama said
" "
2007-01-02 19:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont run after any one.
Love will find you, dont go searching for it, cos it does not happen like that.
Dont worry about being like everybody else, yes i know, ´its alot easier said than done´, but really you are an individual. Enjoy your life, you young, dont worry bout finding your true love now.
It will happen when the time is right.
2007-01-02 19:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be destiny. When I gave up and didn't want a boyfriend anymore I fell in love and we've been together going on 6 years now!
2007-01-02 19:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa Sue 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the boy come to you, but you always have a choice as to whether or not you want to be with him. Not to be offensive, but you sound desperate. You are PERFECTLY FINE BY YOURSELF. Let the RIGHT person come to you, then letting a bunch of frogs give you ALOT of problems. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-02 19:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by CURTIS TERI C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not fall in love if your looking for it. alot of people arent in love, they are in love with the idea of being in love. you can tell the difference between that and being in love. when you fall in love, its magical. you feel so strongly and that you cant stand to be away from that person, you love them so much, you can not explain the feeling you feel. so dont force it. your true love is one out of everyone. you have time to find them.
2007-01-02 20:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1."Don't" chase that person. 2."Don't" wait for "destiny". 3."Do" realize that alot of life is what you make of it(so talk to guys and when you meet one you like, let him know how you feel).
2007-01-02 19:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Zacklee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋