2007-01-02 19:12:19 · 17 answers · asked by rippdbombedandwasted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's to freak about ? Firstly , how old are You?
Secondly , you are who you are , you cannot be who you are not .
If you have had thoughts / sexual feelings towards your own sex
perhaps it is time to find out for yourself of who you really are ,
and the worst thing to do is to try to deny your sexuality , or try to pretend that you are not who " society" may not accept .
Looks like you are in a confused state - wanting to fit in the crowd
that perhaps your surroundings are not so accepting of .
YOU CANNOT " THINK " YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL
YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE OR IF YOU ARE NOT
so be yourself - NO-ONE SAID YOU MUST WALK AROUND WITH A SIGN SAYING " i am bi-sexual " IF YOU ARE BI- SEXUAL
YOU CAN BE DISCREET UNTIL YOU ARE COMFORTABLE TO COME OUT - OR JUST COMFORTABLE BEING DISCREETLY BI .
BUT - plse dont try to go on with life as a heterosexual straight
guy , when perhaps you are only attracted to guys ?
YOU ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL SO DONT FREAK OUT
if you ever need to talk more , I would gladly help you to find out more about yourself - I went through what you are right now ,
michquadros@yahoo.com
2007-01-02 19:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first....no need to freak out. Seriously! It's not that big of deal. Whether or straight, bi, or gay...it's just something you have to figure out for yourself...and at your own pace.
Sexuality is NOT black & white...and any educated person with any sense would support that theory.
If you're sexually "turned on" by both females and males, then yes, you may be bisexual. However, it is in experience you'll find the answer to your question. I'm not suggesting sleeping around...but you may want to "explore" what is out there. If you have already and are confused that you're equally attracted to both sexes, then cool. You can either embrace it...or it can try to ignore it. And just because you embrace it, doesn't mean that everyone and their mother has to know. It's your personal life and your personal perference.
Sounds to me that you just have some things to figure out for yourself...and you will. Just don't flip out...it'll be fine.
2007-01-03 03:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nate S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why all the freaking out? You just doubled your dating potential!
Really, there is nothing to freak out about. If you have a problem with being bisexual, then find a health professional (like a shrink) to talk to about your feelings.
2007-01-03 03:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ...if you are there isn't anything you are going to be able to do about it. You will need yo search into it in your own way to find out if you truly are. If you son't figuire this out, and deny what is going on...you may end up in a situation of where you are hurting someone. It isn't a bad thing if you are, but i am sure that you are worried on the way society plays a role and looks down on this. Remember that this isn't anything to be ashamed about, it's a part of what makes you who you are. Good Luck and do some heavy soul searching.
2007-01-03 03:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be freaking out? Its pretty common now.
Anyway, what makes your think you are bisexual? Perhap you are imagining things.
To test things out, try kissing both guys and gals. If you are really freaked out, then most prob you are not bisexual.. If you enjoyed it, even turned on..then most likely you are bisexual.
2007-01-03 03:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with being bisexual so there's no need to freak out :)
2007-01-03 03:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to freak out. You can't help who you are attracted to. Now you just have double the opportunities!
2007-01-03 03:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok idk if u r a girl or a boy but by the way that u asked the ques. i can safely assume that u r a girl..ok so if find yourself looking at girls and guys then that is normal. judging other girls is what girls do. we try to compare ourselfs to them to see how we stand up to them. now if you are looking at the same sex with sexual intentions, then u may be bi, but my personal opinion, you cant be bisexual, u are either straight or your gay. hope this helps!
2007-01-03 03:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen fagdexter, Im not here work things out for you when your father finds about about this on thanksgiving. heres the deal. if the cowboys win on thanksgiving its a good toime to tell your dad. if they dont your in the closet another year.
2007-01-03 03:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by jake a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALM DOWN> If you are, great. If you aren't, great. Tell your parents after you've decided. Talk to someone who is and think about it before making your decision.
2007-01-03 03:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by lexidoodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋