I am a 18 year old guy and I received a detention from my 25 year old female teacher yesterday. During detention my teacher sat beside me while I'm doing my work and when it was almost time she suddenly put her hands on my thighs and she went up! And before I left she put a note in my pocket and whispered to me that she is waiting. The note has her address on it and I still have it. I haven't told anyone yet and not even my gf. My teacher is very hot but I already have a gf. What should I do? Please HELP me.
2007-01-02 19:06:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks like that you are already considering her proposal otherwise you wouldn't be here .
This decision is more about "Do I really wanna cheat on my girlfriend" rather than "Is it right to cross the sanctity of the student teacher relationship" .
Plus chances are you aren't only one your "teacher" is interested in . So do you really wanna become a personal inflatable doll for your teacher ??
She is older & more experienced than you hence better equipped to handle the repercussions of this sexual relationship .
What ever decision you take please let your girlfriend know . She doesn't deserve this .
2007-01-02 19:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aargh!! You teacher is completely out of line!!! She is in a position of trust and power and her actions are not a come on, they are called sexual harassment! I can't put in enough exclamation marks, sorry. The note she gave you is great evidence of her actions and should be used when you report her to your parents, the Principal, and people at the school district. Keep the original and only give copies if asked. This will protect the evidence from getting "lost". This will probably be a taxing process but will be a heroic thing to do for the sake of the school and education. She needs to be sacked.
2007-01-02 19:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to any of those chicks. I once had the chance and i ruined it because i listened to my stupid subconscious whatever........ I would suggest you go for it. You never know she may extend the lesson.And what do you think you stand to lose by banging your teacher who wants you like crazy. By turning the teacher in is useless and self-destructive. Check this: the teacher's career is ruined, your peers even hate you-the fact that she's hot she is a favorite to so many.
Only ensure that you dont get hooked up. Dictate the terms and many a times after the first encounter make yourself unavailable. Break the rship on the last day if this is your last year.
2007-01-02 19:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Elcie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!
If she's a teacher and you are in high school, then she has total issues and problems. It means she's a loser who can't meet adult men for some reason. I know you're 18 but you're in high school and that's just gross.
Ugh. I'm a teacher and I've liked a student or thought a student was cute, but they are way into their twenties and thirties and it's different. I think my male students who are in their early twenties are way too young and immature for me. And, I would never put the moves on a student who's a current student, no matter how hot or how old.
She has mental issues. Stay the hell away from her.
2007-01-02 19:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by buffy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hot or not, what your teacher did to you is WRONG! whatever you do, do not lose that note. go to your parents and tell them what happened and show them the note she gave you. I can't even begin to tell you how wrong this is. your teacher is guilty of sexual harrassment at the very least and she does not need to be around children of any age. she needs to be in jail, and when you tell your parents and they contact the police, that could very easily be where she ends up. do not keep this a secret because you're probably not the first student she's done this to, and if she's left alone, you won't be the last.
I Wish You the Best.
2007-01-02 19:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your teacher is also human!! From my experience nothing is sacred these days, though I also expected a lot of moral standards from a teacher. Don't betray your teacher by reporting. Either ignore the note or have a life-time hot experience. I know you have a gf, she need not know anything about this.
2007-01-02 19:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being serious, you should report this to a school administrator (like the principal). Whether or not you are 18, it is illegal for a teacher to make sexual advances on a student. I hope you're not serious, and have just watched a few too many pornos.
2007-01-02 19:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is to not be Scared. You may want to write her a letter explaining that you want to be faithful to your GF and ask her to please not tempt you any more. something that might help get the message across is that the letter that you give her should be an obvious copy of an original. Be polite and don't come across as having any interest or being flattered in any way.
2007-01-02 19:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! Think about all the negative consequences (e.g. your girlfriend found out, something happened to the teacher because of what had transpired, other scandals and negative publicity etc.) and that will help you a lot! :) Besides, like you said, you have a girlfriend, so you shouldn't do it.
2007-01-02 19:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the note and turn them in,,This is not approiate behavior from a teacher...DO it for everyone's sake...tell your parent first, let them take over..YOu are very smart to not act on it for the attention...So put the teacher in their place, before they do it to another student that is not as stable as you.
2007-01-02 19:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋