we broke-up almost 2 years has been passed but when i remember the good things happened w/ us....i got hurt until now althoght I am trying hard to forget them but it won't work...! can you give me some advise? thanks for the time whos reading my ques.!
2007-01-02 19:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by venz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You basically answered your own question: "..but I need to move on!" That's half the battle. I think the best advice would be to learn from the past and meet someone else that will meet your needs. There are many ladies out there that have just ended relationships like your's and are looking for new friendships. I don't know what your age is, but go where people hangout and get to know new friends. Expand your horizons. Try new things and you'll definitely meet someone else. You seem to be a sensitive kind of guy. You shouldn't have any problems meeting the right lady. As for the past, it's in the past. Leave it alone. You can always learn from mistakes. That's what experience is. You will be wiser for it, and if it's something she did to you, you'll know that the main thing in a relationship is communication. Just be open, friendly, accessible, be yourself, and good things should happen. Good luck.
2007-01-02 19:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to forget an ex?
You can still love her.....be loyal to her in memory only. You have a life to live, so don't shortchange yourself.
It is good to look at the past, just don't STARE at it!
Time has a way of preserving the good memories and dimming the bad memories. Keep the relationship in perspective. It was good for that time in your life, but now you need to move on. You are a different person and so is she.
Get the courage and energy to move on. Create new attachments to new people, places or things. Find new playmates and playgrounds. THINK that you are over her. ACT like you are over her. Soon, you will actually be over her.
Good-Luck!
C-F
2007-01-02 19:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things are really hard to forget. May be you can focus on your interests like sports, arts and other things that will make you think about other things. Prioritize things and you will realize that not moving on is really useless. Talk with other people and socialize with them. True love will come, don't worry. the two of you may have spend some good times but the fact that she is already your ex, it should make you focus on the present. It's alright if those thoughts come to your mind sometimes, i think it's normal.
2007-01-02 19:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie.your never going to forget.trust me.i have an ex that i edmit still pops into my head every once in a while.but i just remember.im not in love with him anymore.we dated for a very long time.right now i have a new boyfriend,and i seem to find more intrest in him.i look back and say it was just a mistake.maybe you should do the same.just tell your self if it didnt work the fist time...it wasnt meant to be.i bet she doesnt think of you as much as you think of her.all im saying is you shouldnt waist your mind on her.go out there and find someone! well good luck and the truth hurts...:)
2007-01-02 19:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by the best thing he never saw... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi - Happy New Year
When you really care for someone it will be difficult for you to forget her. Ponder who initiated the end of relations. Try to find who was most at fault. Try to find out if your ex-girlfriend is dating someone else or if she is still single. Maybe then you will be able to decide if it is worthwhile going back to her or then make up your mind just to discard her like an old pair of shoes.
2007-01-02 19:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by amal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually its too hard to move on especially when your together for years..their are lots of memorable experiences you've been through..but you should also remember that life must go on..THATS PART OF LIFE ;TO BE HURT ,TO MOVE ON AND TO BECOME MATURE.its a cycle of life. In some ways try make involve in something which is useful and productive and always pray to GOD its a good remedy to a broken heart.
2007-01-02 19:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by jennil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look its hard to forget girls you realy loved. the best thing to do is just try to find a new one to help make new memories. Its hard as, well its the pain that realy sucks. mabe you should try to get good reson to dislike her. Then try to move on. Good Luck Buddy.
2007-01-02 19:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to meet other girls. Once you find someone your ex will just be a memory.
P.s. I might have a friend who will make u forget about her
2007-01-02 19:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to remember that its in the past and that there is very little or no chance things will go back to being what they were
2007-01-02 19:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋