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My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years.
sex has always been pretty normal but the past few mnths hes been asking me to do the strangest things.
He loves when i vomit on his back or chest and than rub it in with my hands. At first i was like okay something new. Now im getting realy freaked out about it. He went and saw a sex therpist and said she said it was normal. But he has now asked me to vomit on his penis and i just dont want to i want to go back to the normal sex life we use to have. I love him so much and he loves me but i cant take this any more someone help me please!

2007-01-02 19:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hi Ginger, My advice is to "Tell Him how you feel" Ask him to give you 10 minutes without talking to allow you to express your feelings on the subject. Tell him it is very important to you. ask him to agree to listen to all you have to say. If you are important enough to him he should take your feelings into consideration and make concessions for you just as you have done for him. If not then you may want to consider looking else where for a mutually caring and full-filling relationship. Best Wishes.

2007-01-02 19:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0 0

I do not believe that a real therapist (sex or otherwise) would advocate someone vomiting on someone else. Some "sex therapists" have no psychiatric credentials. So he either didn't actually see a sex therapist (so he's lying), saw one with no credentials or you're lying (not accusing you, just covering all bases here).
This is an extreme fetish (and in my opinion gross and unhealthy). It's real but extreme. Some people just cannot engage in certain sexual fetishes with their partners. Don't feel bad about not being able to indulge him, that's normal. If this is THAT important to him, maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship with him. Seek counseling with him.

2007-01-02 19:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0 0

How can anyone think vomiting on another human being is normal? Not to mention a turn on? Id be SO out of there!

Dont do anything you dont want to do!

2007-01-02 19:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Your boyfriend is wierd. This is not a "normal" fetish. Vomiting on his penis is disgusting and could potentially do harm to both of you. It could give him a UTI, and if he were to enter you with a dirty penis it could give you a nice infection as well. Is that what you want?? I doubt it.
Encourage him to seek help, and please don't submit to his freakish urges any longer. Have him kiss your feet or something less likely to disgust you.

2007-01-02 19:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 1 0

what kind of sick fetish is that? do you HONESTLY like vomiting at all? exploring new things sexually is GREAT as long as 1 person doesnt feel awkward or disrespected. DO NOT do anything you do not like. tell him HONESTLY how it makes you feel and if he still asks you to do it for him then he doesnt respect you. never do things you dont like to keep someone. move on and get a guy that respects you and your interests!

2007-01-02 19:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 1 0

hey...well here is some advice...if you love your boyfriend like you say you do..you should sit down and talk about what you both like...maybi a couple times a week you guys could do what you want and then you can do what he wants...i mean pukin on someones stomuch is kinda hott...ask him to do the alabama hot pocket...that would realli make ur sex life wild..me and my boyfriend always do freaky **** like that...the grosser the better..HOLLA!

2007-01-02 19:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by xxkimmee06xx 1 · 0 0

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2016-10-29 21:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That's really weird. There is nothing wrong with trying new things but they have to be things that both of you are comforable with. If you feel uncomfortable, you need to draw the line.

2007-01-02 19:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Confused 1 · 2 0

He doesn't need a sex therapist he needs a freaking shrink.

2007-01-02 19:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You have to let him know how u feel about it. If he respects you he won't make you do something you don't want to.

P.S. That sounds really nasty to me.

2007-01-02 19:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0 0

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