for it and confront his girlfriend or should i confront my best friend?
should i even do anything at all? tell me what you think...
2007-01-02 18:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should tell the girl that ur bestfriend is cheating on her
trust me
you will kill both of them(when u tell the girl she will go and kill ur best friend & after that she will die cos of the sorrow of what happend)
LOL
2007-01-02 18:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct thing to do would be to tell him what you saw and ask him to do the right thing. That he is your best friend but what he did is wrong, and if he is not going to tell the girlfriend, you will. Unless of course he promises he will not do it again, in which case you are screwed, because if you then go and tell the girlfriend, you will be a traitor and you will forever be the nice guy.
I don't know there are many things you could do. Tell your friend you like his girlfriend. Or tell the girlfriend you like her, and then confront your friend.
You can also do nothing about it and expose yourself to great deals of anxiety and anger.
2007-01-02 19:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by JC 301186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your best friend and let him know what he did (or is doing) is wrong. Also let him know that if he continues to do what he was doing then you will let his girlfriend know. But until that day stay away from his girlfriend and don't say anything about what he has done.
2007-01-02 18:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by LadyofLuxury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's guys like DJ DEEP up there that made my dating life so difficult.
Some of us gals wish that there were more guys like you, who know the difference between right and wrong.
In my opinion, though, I think that you should confront the best friend, and tell him that if he's going to cheat on her that he needs to leave her. Tell him that you've always liked her, and while you're not going to step on his toes and tell her (because he's your best friend), you don't feel that it's right that he stays with her if he's going to cheat.
Now, if he blows you off, and continue to cheat on her, I'd leave some anonymous photos on her front porch showing him with another girl. That way, there's no proof that you told her, and there's all the proof in the world that your best friend screwed around on her.
2007-01-02 23:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him not her - You may have a crush on your bestfriends g/f but thats a rule, you never go for your best bro's girl, even after break ups. If you do you'll lose a best friend when there is women everywhere.
2007-01-02 18:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, it could take a while...yet remind your pal with regard to the "chicks earlier *****" motto. You 2 have been terrific acquaintances continuously and it could be certainly one of those shame to permit a bite of **** guy come between your lifelong friendship. clarify to her which you're thoroughly harmless and which you're so sorry that he has harm her lots, yet you're her terrific pal and you may by no ability do something to harm her. clarify to her which you have been set up, sort of like a black mail element so which you does not get to spill the beans approximately getting to nicely known her boyfriends cheating tactics. in spite of the fact that she will possibly not desire to take heed to it on the time, provide her a while. she would be able again to comprehend that this guy is a jerk. As for you, carry in there! it will be difficult yet shop your chin up. issues will artwork out for the terrific. stable success!
2016-10-19 09:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you want to stay friends with your best friend.
He would probably be pretty annoyed if he knew you liked her even though he cheated on her. Going out with a mates ex is always a dodgey area. If it didnt work out with her (assuming she likes you too) you could lose your friend for nothing.
If you tell her she might not believe you? Especially if she knows you like her. she could think youre trying to break them up for your own purposes.
Maybe ask your friend about it... ask why he cheated, does he not like his gf anymore? Suss it out first before you do anything to stir...
You could send her an anonymous note - but only if your friend doesnt know you saw him cheating.
2007-01-02 19:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be willing to kill your best friend and fellow co-worker in order to be with his gf, but then have to hide from the police on top of an elevator? ;-) I'd say don't hook up until after the trial, buddy.
2007-01-02 18:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Nick P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that doesnt mean she is going to want you. i guess if you wanted you could have a female friend leave an anonymous tip and try to be there for her but if she has any morals she want go with you...if she does then you know that's not someone you want to be with.
2007-01-02 18:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dawg you should tell her but then you cant date her for six months because it is a man law that after one of your friends has a break up you can not date her for six months
man law
2007-01-02 19:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Robbie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋