i think icheated can u tell me was it a cheating or not?

Question

well my girlfriends friend in in our neigbour and we saw each other(we r good friends but no special realations)we talked and she said ive done somethin special(some cool thing)i told her here is your reward and i wanted to kiss her in the face but she moved her lips near mine mine and we made out like 15 seconds i really didnt meant to kiss her i just couldnt control myself so what s your openion

Answer 1

If it is like you said, you could have backed away. I think you liked it. If you truly love your girlfriend, you should have control the situation, but you did not. Be honest and tell your girlfriend exactly what you have ask us. See how she feels. Good luck.

Answer 2

Let me ask 1 thing, why would u want to give her a kiss on the face for reward?? u could have reward something like coffee,drinks etc. unless u really want to kiss her! u are 1 hell of a **** up dude! No more comments

Answer 3

I think you tell your girlfriend and let her decide what to do. I am sure it is hard to break something like that to her, but it is the best thing to do. I think that "technically" it is cheating, but.....very minor (unless it becomes a habit), and she should be able to look past it. Trust me she will really appreciate your honesty rather than finding out some other way

Answer 4

i know it happens sometime. but if your girlfriend comes to know about this she will not trust you. her trust will be broken..... i hope she never knows bout it from someone else so the better option is that u tell her everything urself.as it wasnt intentionally and was a mistake ur gf will forgive u.she will take some time....(but what would u do if u come to know same thing about your gf? what punishment would u give her? same is the punishment for u.) remember nd make sure that u dont end up doing such kind of thing again.

Answer 5

I think you are too young to be dating. That said, you had better go tell your girlfriend that theg irl started it or you will be called all kinds of names the next time you see your girlfriend. its not cheating, since you didn't have sex, but 12 year olds don't see things that way. your girlfriend will say you were cheating

Answer 6

I almost could not read your question! You may need to practice self control if you plan to keep your girlfriend. I'd bounce out on you and find someone who won't kiss the slutty neighbor. Use spell check next time.

Answer 7

Yes you cheated but it wasn't completly your fault. It was your friends fault for kissing you and your fault for continuing. I think you need to tell your girlfriend what happened before she finds out some other way.

Answer 8

I don't think it's cheating, but you should tell your girlfriend and leave it up to her.

As for saying you "couldn't control" yourself, grow up. You were aware of the situation and could have just as easily pushed her away, so if your girlfriend breaks up with you, don't be surprised.

Answer 9

well u cheated but lets face it ur girlfriend is probably 2

Answer 10

Technically yeah it is, but I dont think it is like serverly bad, like we all have are mistakes like when some thing like this would come up. so its not really cheating.