ok. do you think its wrong for me and my boyfriend to be nine years apart? hes nine years older than me, is it right or wrong?
2007-01-02 18:44:59 · 17 answers · asked by b00ty_poppin_2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well assuming you are older than 18 years old, I would say that it is okay, if you are younger, then I think you should seriously think about it.
2007-01-02 18:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by melark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your age if your over the age of 18 then its fine there isnt anything wrong with it but if you are under age then yes it is a problem because he could get in big trouble even go to prison for child molesting so if you are under age think twice about what you are doing if you are over 18 then your doing just fine if you like the guy keep going with him
2007-01-03 02:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sawyers girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how old you are or how mature you are to handle all the sorted details of it. My boyfriend is actually 11 yrs younger than I am but he is more mature and structurally sound than most men my age are. I just works for us. If you are a young person still in their teens and the other person is 9 yrs older than yes I see a big problem with it. Most young people are to naive to understand the complexity of any relationship.
2007-01-03 02:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by perkadittle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in your teens, then it is not healthy. My fiance and I are 9 years apart. I'm 34, and she's 25. The difference becomes less with age. Fertility may become an issue if the man is much younger than the woman.
2007-01-03 02:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by smorgasborg69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your not under 18... because that would just be perverted on his part. no i don't see anything wrong with the age difference. it might be hard to have things in common though. still my parents are 17 years apart and they have been married for 30 years.
2007-01-03 02:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by azoreanguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how old you are
if your a teenager then its wrong and he may even be prosecuted
if your older the age gap is not a problem i know people who have a 30yr gap and they have a wonderful marriage with 2 children as long as he treats you right age is just a number
2007-01-03 02:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by happychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, depends on the age really...Like 45 and 54 dont seem that bad, but 7 and 16 does.
2007-01-03 02:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your ages. If he's 49 and you're 40, I don't see anything wrong with it. If he's 20 and you're 11 - plenty wrong with that!
2007-01-03 02:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO u r perfectly alright. My dad and mum abt 10 to 11 years apart? hee legal though~
2007-01-03 02:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by TenThousandWHY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter on the age...Just ask yourself, "am I really in love to get involved with someone older". Its never wrong to follow your heart.
2007-01-03 02:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by dougownsmyface 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋