i really loved him alooot.. but i guess he doesnt understand my love for him!!
i've really lost hope in love, so please guyz
help me get out of this situation...plllleeeeaaaaseeee!!
2007-01-02 18:21:21 · 24 answers · asked by czar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh dear, i've been through d same exactly 1 month ago. look at my questions, it's been d same. Hope u find wat u'll need there but i'll also giv my advice. Forget him! i know it's difficult but u'll hav to. Busy urself will help, change of atmosphere, and go out! When u think of him, hit urself and concentrate on something else even if u want to think about what went wrong. U'll hurt urself else. Remember bad moments (it was more painful for me coz i didn't find any), change ur looks, ur num, everything, delete his num, mails, etc. Put away all his gifts someplace u won't care to check. Also if u want to get back, wait some time, to make things calm down. Coz at first guy feel okay then they'll miss the girl.. Hope this helps. Don't forget to check my questions, it will help.
2007-01-02 18:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by r33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep yourself as busy as possible. I just broke it off with my love (it's been a little over one month) and I'm just getting to the point where I'm not crying myself to sleep anymore. Do whatever it takes to keep your mind busy so that you don't have time to think about him. It helps a little. Try praying, that always helps. I felt the same way about losing hope in love. Don't give up though, there will be someone else out there that will help you love again. Time will help heal some of your pain too. If you do think about anything make sure it is all the bad things that he did to you to make you want to break up with him.
2007-01-02 18:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seperate yourself from the situation. Stay busy with friends go on a trip and take a break. Start something new for yourself. A New Job, a New Career..How do you expect to get anywhere or get over him if you just sit in the corner and mop..
Knock it off and get back into this world..Your New Man is Waiting for you to make your appearance.
2007-01-02 18:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation. try pouring ur heart out to a close friend..it helps trust me. u can go on a shopping spree or lunches or do other things to keep urself busy. pls throw away the gifts or things that remind u of him. think this way life doesn't stop if one person leaves n it was meant to last forever.
guys r not as emotional as we r n he must be having a good time with his frnds so y should u waste ur time brooding over him?
2007-01-02 18:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sadly this has happened to me too. he was my first love and we had been dating 8 months when he decided to call it quits. i was so utterly broken because i was still deeply in love with him but i got great support from my friends and the day after he broke up with me my friends and I all went to an amusment park and had the time of our lives. so hang with your friends, have a girls night, eat a bit of ice cream or chocolate, take some time to do the things you enjoy, keep busy, and most importantly give yourself some time to heal. because the wounds on the heart are the hardest to heal and take the longest time. so be patient and i know you dont want to hear this but things do get better in time. believe me i didnt want to hear it either because i really didnt want to get over him because i knew that i would lose him forever then but I did although it took quite a few months.
2007-01-02 18:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your heart into something else for awhile: spend more time with your friends or your family, take up a craft, read some books, anything to take your mind off the guy. Rebound relationships aren't usually a good idea, however.
2007-01-02 18:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by tori.bird 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is get 3-4 of you close friends go on a long vacation full of activities like rock climbing or rafting etc... and do all those things that you wanted to do in your life but could not do it because of your ex-boyfriend...
Single is the right time to mingle... Cheers dear
2007-01-02 18:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by rajkins_2k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just spread bad thinks about him u ll feel better
dont do this i was kidding
yaar i think see every one does not get every thing in life
so try to be happy and meet new people
i no some one is watting for u some where
so find him out
2007-01-04 22:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by soniya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say there is a guy out there that loves you more than he would ever have you just have to wipe those tears off your pretty little face and go out there and find him
2007-01-02 18:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by Robbie L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋