2007-01-02 18:14:21 · 19 answers · asked by Madilyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i sleep w/ them bcuz i want them to like me....and i know sex is the one sure way to get a guy for atleast a while
2007-01-02 18:15:32 · update #1
Learn to accept yourself first.
Find a way to learn to value, and love who you are. Don't give yourself to someone who wont want you for longer than sex. They need to value everything that makes you special. If they really accepted you, they would wait, and get to know the real you first.
God bless you.
2007-01-02 18:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Belix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't going to like you cuz you slept with them. Sure, they'll keep your number handy for booty call, but they will have absolutely NO respect for you. If you are that desperate for attention, you need some new hobbies or a whole different set of people to hang around. Have some pride in YOURSELF, not just your ability to put out.
2007-01-03 02:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some self confidence and quit being a hobag. You are more than just some stupid sex object. Don't you realize that when WOMEN like you have sex with whatever guy they come across just so they LIKE them it sets all women back like 50 years?
It's girls like you that ruin it for the rest of us! Some guys expect us all to give it up to them and make us feel bad if we don't wanna slut it up to them to prove we like them or want to be with them. Or the good girls get overlooked because girls like you put out and are so easy--so the guys come running to the "easy" ones instead.
I'm sorry to be so harsh, it's just the hard, cold truth.
Come on dear, you are WORTH so much more, don't allow guys to use you like that!! Show them how intelligent, sweet, funny and caring you are and show them your TRUE self, let them see your character/personality and make them like you FOR YOU, not for your body, then you will get a guy that truly cares for you and loves you!
God bless and peace.
2007-01-03 02:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to get that thought out of your head. make men accept you for who you are, not with sex. sex should be a bonus. if they dont accept you for who you are then thats not the type of guy for you. dont worry there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-03 02:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Emery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then do they still like you once they've finished with you???......I doubt it, get some self esteem and learn some self control and will power, learn to love yourself.....otherwise your no better than a prostitute and you may as well go and do it for a living.....
2007-01-03 02:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear if you continue to do this then one day you would be famous as a SLUT do you want your kids in future to to called and teased as his/her mom is a slut.... but from your question you seem to be a nice innocent girl.. stop doing this the guy who wants to stay with you for other reasons apart from sex is the one with whom you need to be having sex... wait for the right guy dear... as by now if sex has become a habit for you the start masturbating... it may help you over come the habit.. cheers to life
2007-01-03 02:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by rajkins_2k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to do the same thing first you gatta single your self from the crowds and spend time with yourself and learn to love yourself get a hobbie i used to kick box and wrestle i can kick anyones *** anyday now, just learn to love your self......... read write jog......
hope i helped
best of luck
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2007-01-03 02:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start being more selective..
Find an older, mature unmarried man who is financially secure.
He will probably want to keep you...Marry you, take care of you.
2007-01-03 02:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what the guys think of you sounds like you like to have sex alot just find one guy and try to stick with him if he loves you he will stay.
2007-01-03 02:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by ineed 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TRUST ME SWEETHEART SLEEPING WITH THEM IS BY FAR THE WORST APROACH!!!! TO MAKE A MAN WANT YOU AND RESPECT YOU HOLD OUT!!!! ONCE YOU LEARN TO LOVE YOUR SELF THE RIGHT MAN WILL LOVE YOU AND HE WILL NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH BUT HE WILL DEFINATELY WANT TO RESPECT YOU!!!!
2007-01-03 02:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by "TheOne" 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋