my feelings for him strong he overwhelms me with heat, passion ,heart beating fast but everything with us with our eyes is the only thing doing the talking.
2007-01-02 18:06:45 · 13 answers · asked by LORI36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I can.....and u just beware of this guy....as the potential to break ur heart is definetly there......
I had a similar relationship which ended in Sept 2006, also 2 years.....we were in a relationship in all sense of the word except a physical one....we never even kissed too......
I thought he was being sweet, sensitive and romantic....adhering to our religious moral codes......but wat he was.....was a 2 timing jerk....who was already engaged to be married in India.....though he was a local......he hid it from me....for nearly a year....when i found out and raged at him and wanted to leave he begged me not to....claiming the situation was forced on him by parents.....claimed will put things aright.....claimed loved me.....so gave him another 6months of my life.....only to find out he was a bloody coward......no guts to stand up to his parents.....and only wanted my company and attention.....loved the feeling that he could make someone fall for him......
He was my first love....damn him......knew jolly well I was a cynic when it came to love and marriage....that's y i was still single with nary a relationship till i was 27yrs old......came into my life as a fren.....than made me love him....he made the first move....i thought he was a gentlemen the way he never intiated a physical move.....was just a coward....guess he was afraid of my elder bros.....if he dared get physical than dump me they would have been after his blood!!!
So don't repeat the same mistake I did.....clarify....do abit of investigation work on his intentions.....whether he is toying wif ur feelings and just enjoying ur company while he can....
The guy i mentioned is now officially married in Dec.....to the bride of his parents choice.....he still has the cheek to wanna be my fren.....he calls me his guardian angel.....cos i was the sucker who does all his research for his work as well encouraged him to take up his masters.....always getting things done for him......
So make sure this guy is not making use of u!!!
Take Care and Be Wise!!!
2007-01-02 18:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings may be real but are his even there? Tell him upfront how you feel, guys are simple and will absolutely let you know if they like you through their actions if not words. If you've kept this bottled up all this time then the time period doesn't have anything to do with it.
2007-01-02 18:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Im in love, real love, trust me. Im with my boyfriend right now we started going out on New Years. And I havent seen him in 2 weeks. Im out of state. We talked for about 6 months and we both fell in love. [[ With out ever doing anything ]]
2007-01-02 18:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cindyyy<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really understand your situation, but i'm assuming you're not going out with him, since you say you're "eyes is the only thing doing the talking."
regardless, have you tired initiating the physical contact? you give him a hug, or you kiss him. guys like it when girls make the first move. it demonstrates confidence, which is a total turn-on.
2007-01-02 18:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by mike_gaerheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? I can't help but wonder if he feels the same way about you. Either he doesn't, or both of you have very strong moral values.
2007-01-02 18:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by micha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is one of you already married and that's why nothing has happened. If so, stay away b/c it will only be a sexual relationship and you are already emotionally attached. You will get hurt.
2007-01-02 18:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can..... I was in the same situation as you once....and yes...it was real to me....I had ogasms just by looking eye to eye...if that ain't real...I don't know what is!
2007-01-02 18:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey come on get real & open ur mouth
2007-01-02 18:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sure have those feelings, but it sounds like you don't have a relationship yet. Good luck!!!
PS Does he even know you feel that way?????????
2007-01-02 18:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by buffy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be with him alone. Go to movie or talk to him being alone.
2007-01-02 18:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by aramaiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋