Everyone has told me she was out of order for doing this to me but if she called me today I'd go running back to her. I feel like a p*** for loving her so much. What can I do to get over her.
2007-01-02 18:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone new. Stand up and be a man.
Take your medicine and move on. Anyone who does dumping by text must be a horrible person. Why allow yourself to be so devalued imo - if you love her then you're not seeing her for the real person she must be.
2007-01-02 18:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
have some self respect. Why would you harbour feelings for such a cow? I got dumped by text by a girl I really liked but all my feelings evaporated as soon as I read the text as she obviously wasn't the girl I thought she was.
The best thing you can do is send 1 final text telling her not to bother coming back when she realises that she has made a mistake, then delete all her messages and her number, that way you cant contact her even if you want to.
2007-01-03 06:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. delete all her texts & number from your phone..
Change your number if it will stop her messing with your head.
A great way to get over a failed relaitionship is to aim for newer horizons...Go out more do all those things you always said you'd like to do but just haven't had time to do, look up old friends & relatives & go & pay them a visit.
Throw yourself into the new exciting future you must plan for yourself...
Your heart can be broken many times & thats part of life but you WILL find some-one who will love you back as much as you love them...one sided love isn't true love at all.
When you really have got yourself into new things & meeting new people you will realise that the relaitionship you had with this girl was merely an aquaintance & the love of your life is just waiting somewhere in your bright new future...awaiting patiently for a guy like you to come along.
2007-01-03 02:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by skippy's mum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many questions here. Let's begin this way. You can't control others. If she isn't interested any more, that's tough for you but that's her choice. And, her loss. If she becomes interested again, good for her and good for you.
Now let's look at the other side. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as the great and wonderful person you really are. You have control over how you react to others, you control your own emotions.
One suggestion I've heard is to get over an intimate friend, find as many others as you can and screw your brains out. I don't offer this as a recommendation...just that the idea is to drive one person out of your head (and heart) by stuffing yourself with other goodies that distract you. Broken hearts take time to heal, and often you can heal quicker if you have some help from some willing partners. Good luck.
2007-01-03 02:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just forget her my friend. She's a real b*tch. She wasn't decent enough to dump you by meeting you face to face, she was hiding behind the text. So take my advise find another g/f who cares for you mate.
Good Luck mate and hope this helps
2007-01-03 02:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Falcon 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry one day she'll get treated even worst by some guy and she'll know how you felt.
You are better off in the long run without this cold mean person.
She did you a favor.
2007-01-03 02:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i know xactly how u feel, im going thru the same thing rite now. im not ova him yet but it helpd me let go a littl by deleting all his messages and his no. from my fone. u say ul go running back 2 her if she called u, so avoid her at all costs.hang out with othr girls mor, and u wil get ova her in time. just hang in there, man.
2007-01-03 02:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can ask yourself whether you're going to continue to let people walk all over you and mistreat you or not. That might help you feel better.
2007-01-03 02:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody should ever dump anyone by text, its wrong, but unfotuantly you cant control who you love, and it sucks not being able to stop loving someone who screwed you around, but sometimes you cant stop it.
2007-01-03 02:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
does she even know you got the text?
text her back and ask her out for a date if you want her back that much.
2007-01-03 02:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋