My friend set me up with this guy on the 31 of Dec and we ended up chatting until 3 that morning (sending eachother messages) and we met the next day. Now she tells me he is like a schoolboy with a crush. And I have butterfly's in my tummy we send each other messages every day, my heart leaps everytime I read a message and its him. Am I in love? or whats wrong with me?
PS, I'm over 20
2007-01-02 18:02:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is also over 20
2007-01-02 18:21:01 · update #1
And we also already met theres not a big age difference not more than four years (he's older)
2007-01-02 18:24:42 · update #2
sounds like you have found a very special relationship
savor every moment that the two of you have together and best of luck to the two of you
2007-01-02 18:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Aviator1013 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless he's only 13 and legally underage, chances are good that the both of you are falling in love.
My husband and I have been married for 16 years - we met when he was 13 and I was 15, and we both knew it was love at first sight.
It can happen! (But having said that, don't be too quick to get into a sexual relationship or anything, because even though we "knew" it was love, we had alot of time to get to know each other and prove that we were in for the long-haul before we took it to a physical level.)
Proceed with caution, but proceed joyfully!
2007-01-02 18:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be just a crush, but this is the way love starts, it's always exciting at the beginning. My wife says she still gets butterflies when she sees me.
2007-01-02 20:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its a crush. u really like this guy but its not love yet. love does not spring up instantly it takes time to develop. you may yet love him just yet but give it some time to blossom. you will know when you love him because love is a completely selfless feeling towards another. trust your heart.
2007-01-02 18:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you're in love, well at least not yet. you obviously made a really good connection with this guy and you feel it. its fine to be giddy, everyone gets that way. good luck, and you definitely sound like you've at least fallen for him.
2007-01-02 18:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to know this guy....find out if hez really a school guy or not ....moreover age doesnt matter if ur really in love but school guys can realy b jus havin fun or simply doin it 2 feel better about themselves ...find out more about him , get o know him better ....his intentions and all.........guys at ths age can b v immature ..........msgs r not enuf to build a relationshp...control ur overwhelming feelings now ....t c
2007-01-02 18:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Aishu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No doubt, it's infatuation at this point. Try a face to face conversation, then a date, and if you still feel that way then it is what it is.
2007-01-02 18:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are in love girl.....nothing is wrong with you. When you know, you know and it sounds like you know
2007-01-02 18:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha!
about the same thing happened to me, exept I already knew the guy... and well if our stories are similar...
I think you are in love and should try dating him...
2007-01-02 18:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by squirrely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should spend more time getting to know him personaly. some people are alot different when they are sending you msgs...
2007-01-02 18:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋