me and this girl are really close and we have become friends with benifits-sneaking off and kissing-but now i like this other girl who is really cool and she likes me. which should i choose, or some advice would be helpful.thx
2007-01-02 17:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by tall dark and handsome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to decide what your priorities are. Are you looking for a possible long term relationship? Or are you looking for sex? Answering those 2 questions will solve your dilemna.
2007-01-02 17:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by cinquefoil_solis 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Man listen with this outcome there will appear another girl (3rd one) and you will like each other. And then 4th and 5th...till you understand that you are the one who is in control of the relationship...If you kissed the first girl and forgot about her the next day...this means that one of you is really boring or not satisfying enough!!!
2007-01-03 02:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by josh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear TD&H, You don't really need advice...sounds like you've already made up your mind. Close your eyes and ask yourself where you'd like to be in a year, and with which girl. Or, what do you really like to do and can you see yourself doing it with either or both girls? And I'll tell you a secret...you will make the right choice, whichever one it is. Trust your instincts.
2007-01-03 02:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly FRIENDS first, with benefits, then you should be able to talk to her about what you're feeling, and she should be ok with that. But, she may have deeper feelings for you, and you have to decide if you want a serious relationship with her. If not, are you ok with not being friends with her anymore? She may be really hurt if you decide to go for girl #2... But if you really think #2 is the one, maybe that would be worth it.
2007-01-03 02:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by citrusgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benifits arnt anything close to substituting an actual relationship, sure they are easy but things can get messy, if this girl you like, likes you back then go for it.
2007-01-03 01:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one you like best, but if it is not the first one, you should tell her before getting with the other girl. Best trait you can have is honesty.
2007-01-03 01:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Junkyard DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one you like the most. try not to think of the kissing because it will be just as good with the other girl.
2007-01-03 01:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
choose the one you like more and if you can't pick... then just give it a while. you will find who the right girl is. however DO NOT lead on a girl if you don't like her anymore or as much as the other one. just explain to the girls what you have been feeling. it will help!
2007-01-03 01:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by 4ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Other girl.
The first girl is only a Friend-with-Benifits. Those never turn out well.
2007-01-03 01:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you want? a relationship or another friend with benefits?
if you want the latter, then you don't have to choose. if you want a relationship, then you have to choose one - especially if you want that relationship to become exclusive.
2007-01-03 01:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋