A women just made me sick after answering this question I posted earlier!
MEN, What do you think of fantasizing?
Do you think it is wrong for a woman to daydream or fantasize being with another man when you are married? I know many women who say they don't do it, it's wrong blah, blah....I think they are denying it ... Is it normal that I do? Do men do it to?
2007-01-02 17:51:28 · 32 answers · asked by Cookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men and women fantasize about other people. It is totally normal. I love my wife and she is most often the focus of my fantasy or my thoughts when we make love... but sometimes I am thinking of everyone from a celebrity to a woman at my office to a girl I saw waiting for a bus as I drove by... it is the healthiest thing in the world as long as the fantasies to not take the place of your partner... it just adds a bit of fire once in a while. Sometimes my wife should thank Angelina Jolie for some of the best orgasms that she has ever had!
2007-01-02 17:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men and women do it. It is normal. The best part of a fantasy is it not becoming a reality. However, I was with a woman for 7+ years and could not fantasize about anyone other than her. It was a torrid love affair and I felt many times that I died and went to heaven.
There is nothing wrong about fantasies no matter what the scenario--married, single, Monk, divorced, or recluse.
It is normal that you do and I would love to imagine what they are. Enjoy!
2007-01-02 17:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Bubbles, Just look at the men's magazines on any well-stocked rack. they're all fantasy magazines. But then you might say the same about women's fashion magazines, women look at the pictures and fantasize about how they might look in that gown, this dress, those shoes, etc. We all fantasize. You can't visualize the future without fantasizing. Every time you imagine a situation, you're fantasizing. Yes, we all do it, it's part of our very fiber.
2007-01-02 17:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people will say that fantasizing is a sin, lusting but I can fantasize about women who I know I would never get and it can make sex with you partner(or yourself) so much better. It quite normal as long as you don't shout any name other than your husbands. I'll be willing to bet he does it too. It's OK!
2007-01-02 18:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's natural for both sexes to fantasize, be it dreams of being wealthy or more of a sexual type. It's healthy for the mind to stay active, as long as she knew who to come home to at the end of the day! Anyone who says they don't fantasize in one way or another is more than likely lying =)
2007-01-02 17:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by qamper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here, and feel free to email me and complain about me making generalizations, but, ALL men fantasize unless they have some sort of sexual deficiency disorder. Even then, it's iffy.
2007-01-02 18:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and fantasize about other men all the time. Hope I'm not wrong!
2007-01-02 17:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 09:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is one way of coping with a rough time in ones life. It can be a painless way of letting your mind be at ease with your situation.
Don't act on it though, nor tell anyone so as to jeopardize your current relationship. The exception is a therapist or marriage counselor. This person is here to guide you and it is in your best interest to discuss such feelings in your regular session.
I'm not in a relationship currently, however I often ask myself. "What if . . . ." Oh well, it doesn't hurt to dream.:-)
2007-01-02 18:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal to do it i am not married but am dating and i have also discussed this with my girl she also does it she knows i do it but still we love each other...so its absolutely fine, fantasizing is a brain phenomenon not the hearts...
so sweets enjoy doing it... cheers
2007-01-02 18:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by rajkins_2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋