I crave love so much. It is the reason I'm still here, but my body is littered with stretch marks. So much so that i think it will really hinder my chances of finding love, and hence giving me the desire of suicide. With these ugly marks how will i ever find love ?
2007-01-02 17:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel I'm not really qualified to answer this question, for I have the same problem, but the difference with myself is, I stopped looking and actually don't mind being single.
First off, my advice to you is, if that's all they are interested in, is looks, forget them. Beauty will fade, what's inside lasts a lifetime. I think you are trying to hard.
I think if you slow down and relax, it will find you. Maybe not tomorrow or next week but think it will find you eventually, but it sure as hell won't if you commit suicide.
Get that thought out of your head now! That is not the solution, it only makes more problems and heartache for those you love and those who love you.
I know someone loves you, Hell I'm a total ***** but know my Mother still loves me! Don't do that and leave those who love you behind to pick up the piece's.
I know where you are coming from, I've been there and got through it, I know you can too. My advice is ... Take it one day at a time ... life will get better .. but only you can make it happen!
Just take life as it comes and enjoy what you can of it, I figure someday I'll find someone, but untill then I'm going to enjoy myself. I'm sure there is someone out there for me (boy I feel sorry for them when they do find me ha!)
I'm sure there is someone out there for you as well, they just haven't found you yet. Untill then do the best you can and enjoy the ride.
2007-01-02 19:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is what we all crave. Ever hear the expression beautiful is in the eye of the beholder, or Love is blind. Everybody on the face of the earth has a flaw either internally or externally. Nobody is perfect. I have been married to my husband for 26 years. We both have flaws. No matter what though we love each other. If somebody honestly loves you they love who you are, not what you are. You will find love, probably when you least expect it. Try not to worry so much about it. Enjoy other things in life. A pet is fantastic, their love is so unconditional. They always love you if you care for them properly and they are always there when you need them. Began reading, walking, some type of hobby. There are more things in life than the perfect mate. There is life in general. Tomorrow always offers something different and exciting. If you are healthy be thankful for that and live and love the life you have.
2007-01-02 18:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop it, just stop it.
Stretch marks do not define a person. I just recentlly got married to a guy who thinks he is ugly and to me he isn't, I thoought I was ugly and he thinks I am hot!!!
Suicide is the rudest thing you can ever do, not a god idea, I do not know if u are male or female, but the sun is the best way to get rid of stretch marks...
I was a not kidding, playboy bunny, I NEVER FELT ALL THAT PRETTY, it ws all fake, give our self a break, tomorrow is annother day, grab it. F..........the stretch marks, be kind, be nice, live, you are here for a reason...find out what it is.....good luck.
2007-01-02 18:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible to still find love.
Dont ever let go of hope. No matter what happens.
I understand exactly how u feel.
Keep yourself open to what is goin on around u.
The person u r lookin for could be right in front of u.
Dont give up.
2007-01-02 17:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for an older gentleman who wont mind a few stretch marks.
2007-01-02 18:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you also picky?
2015-04-26 00:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by AHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋