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Please only Serious answers.

This is a question Ive been askin many people.

Im lookin for a decent answer PLEASE!!!

2007-01-02 17:47:28 · 23 answers · asked by Just Ask 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Women u kno u cant change the man.

U kno he is not worth a &^%* but u stay and try to make it work.

No kids. No reason to stay. Y r u still with this sorry son of a &^*$(

2007-01-02 18:09:30 · update #1

23 answers

women stay with a man that hurts them mentally or physically because these woman don't have self respect for themselves or should I say that these men brake them so down mentally that they think they wont ever get another man and will be alone for the rest of their life's being miserable. these men also say to these woman that their fat and ugly and that no men will ever look at them. woman are fragile and this words hurt them and will mentally always stay with them thinking their worth nothing. that's why they stay with men who hurts them, its not that they want to but its rater a question that they feel worth nothing.

2007-01-02 17:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Self esteem. Even a woman with a strong personality, that is self sufficient, can get caught up this situation. For one reason or the other they find themselves in this situation and the longer they try to make it work the lower their self esteem gets. By the time they realize they are in real trouble they don't have the strength to fight their way out. Most of the time it is very hard to escape this type of relationship. They don't "let" you go you have to fight, and you are too tired to bother. They make you feel like a looser and usually tell you so regularly. It is a hell that no one should ever wake up in. But so many do.

2007-01-03 01:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0 0

Many of them are brain washed into thinking that they're not going to find love elsewhere. Others are disillusioned to think that the hurt is a part of love and a loving relationship. Some have never seen nor have they learned what a healthy relationship consists of. Some are threatened if they try to leave. My cousin is in an abusive relationship. It's hard helping women like her when she doesn't have the balls to demand more out of life and to find a way out.

2007-01-03 01:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0 0

Sometimes they think that it'll get better. Maybe the good times make up for the bad. Maybe they're willing to stay together despite the rough times. Maybe he's trying to change and she's willing to be patient enough to wait. Maybe she's into that stuff like them people on that show Kink. Some women are just use to be told what to do from childhood, and suffer from lack of self worth. Some women are manipulated into staying, and think that that they deserve it. Sometimes women are ignorant and they think it's normal behavior in relationships.

2007-01-03 02:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I can only speak from experience, for one, I thought it was my fault and if I would change things would be better. two, the little attention that I got form him was better then no attention at all and that is what I would have if I left. and three, I wasn't financially secure enough to leave him. With all that going on I got physically sick and was so weak that I could not make a decision to do anything. Thank God for those people who loved me enough to help me get away. Here I am one year later and better then ever.

I hope this helps.

2007-01-03 02:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Recovery Diva 2 · 1 0

many times women will stay with their abusive partner out of fear. if there is physical or mental abuse going on then there is often the message of "if you leave me, things will get worse for you". often the abuser will threaten or instill fear into their partner by threatening either them or their family. This is a situation best solved by walking away very quickly and not looking back. Also, if need be, get the law involved and make him/her know that you are not going to tolerate their threats anymore and that more severe penalties await them if they do not back off. No one wants to go to jail as an abuser, they wont be well received there.

2007-01-03 02:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by ssrc30 2 · 0 0

Speaking in a reversed situation, if you love them you always hope they'll change their ways for you....they won't.

I'm sure some is out of fear (of retaliation), I guess to some of them, that is the way of life.

We all have our reasons for staying in an abusive relationship but one thing remains constant, eventually your eyes will open and you will act. We are afraid to let go for reasons unknown, but I guess you feel so worthless, after a while you think no one else would have you (this is what they want, they have power over you).

Don't WASTE your time get out people, life is too short.

2007-01-03 02:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 4 · 1 0

when some women fall in love ,they will love the guy no matter what, sometime they will deal with absusive husbands for the kids, sometimes they feel that they are worthless and no other men may love them,
most of the time woman believe they can change a guy there for they think they will stop and be nice and lovin that is not going to happen.
i dont wanna call the women that put up with that stupid, but there really is no other word in my mind to describe it.

2007-01-03 01:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 1 0

Sometimes women don't see that they are being hurt because it is coming from someone that they love and supposively that person loves them too. They do not want to believe that this is really happening to them. I know, I am speaking from experience. I didn't see what was happening to me but, my eyes were opened when I saw him trying to hurt someone else dear to me. Now, I am mentally damaged because of what happened to me. My pain always oozes into all my new relationships. I don't want this to happen to me again so, my guard is always way up making it impossible to have a normal relationship. We don't mean to let these things happen. I was always told that I should stay in a relationship until the bad outweighs the good so, I did. We want to be loved and protected by our man but, then we fall in love and just don't want to accept that he is bad for us. sometimes after it's too late.

2007-01-03 02:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 1 0

Some feel that there is no option...that they have no place to go, no means to support themselves. Others mistakenly think if they stay long enough, the abuser will stop. And some fear that if they leave they or their family members will be tormented. Abusers break the spirit of the victim, and they often times think they have no choice and that no one cares

2007-01-03 01:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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