For the first time in my life i am actually in a decent relationship, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now and have lived together for the past year and a half, we used to rarely fight but for the past couple months we have been fighting almost all the time and it seems like every little thing that he does annoys me, i don't want to spend any time with him and i just want to be with my friends. i feel happier when i am out with my friends and not with him. even when he does come and hang out with my friends and i, i still don't want him around. it's just so weird i used to love him being around me and now i can't stand it. have i fallen out of love with him??
2007-01-02 17:37:01 · 12 answers · asked by Ditsey24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2007-01-02 17:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with you two is that you guys are living together and do not have private time. When you started dating before you hooked up, you have your time and he has his time. And that time apart drives you mad because you have other responsibilities you need to take care of before you two can make the effort to meet up again.
Now that you're in a steady relationship and are living with each other, all those effort to make plans for romantic evening or plans to meet up are non-existence because you guys live together and sees each other almost 24/7. So now, seeing your girlies is a blessing.
Solution: Have more private time alone away from each other
2007-01-03 01:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a work relationship. Who quit work. You or him. or both. Love just doesn't come out of the closet and you put it on and take it off. You must make it everyday . To grow to shine to laugh. To be a wall to lean on. No one is all of these things all of the time but if you aren't any of things any of the time. I would say someone has given up.
2007-01-03 01:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in rash moments...you feel as if you don't want that person to be around u..and wen i say rash moments..i dont' just mean a couple days..sometimes it could be a couple months...but the thing you have to reconsider...is whether u would miss all the good things u guys had between u two...or not.In all relationships...there are always good and bad things..but sometimes...we only focus on the bad things..because it alters our relationship in a bad way...and sometimes it's just more obvious...cause it's things that we don't like...sometimes..u just need some time...to settle down.
2007-01-03 01:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by 2Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always fall out of love with every man you fall in love with, that's how nature works. In this case, however, it may be that you really are incompatible. You should move out and tell him you need time living alone to find out if you really should be living with him in the first place.
2007-01-03 01:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just take a month break. Just flat out no talking or nothing to him and see what happens after that month and how you feel.
2007-01-03 01:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cindyyy<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have. i used to be the same way with my ex and it was just miserable. you should ask for a break and make sure that is what you really want. you can't miss nobody if they never go way
2007-01-03 01:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Ann K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then yes you have. And being mean to him is making it worse.
It is better to sit down and tell him, then make a clean break, and quit tormenting him.
2007-01-03 01:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by tequilagold_32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it.
2007-01-03 01:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your outgrowing the relationship? or just need some space
2007-01-03 01:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋