2007-01-02 17:36:55 · 17 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After time looks fade, but a lovable personality is forever.
2007-01-02 17:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there has to be a chemistry thing going on when you see a person, to date them, for any type of longterm relationship or commitment. So if there isn't, and you are attracted to his personality only, I would just leave it as close friends. There is a lot to be said for a great friendship too!!! Good luck, I know it's hard out there figuring it all out. You'll know when the right person comes along, there'll be many a sign and one of them will be that physical thing that occurs when you see him! Then there are so many other levels but there has to be a mutual attraction initially, it's only fair to say it like it is, be honest.
2007-01-02 17:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that love for another person doesnt have to be physical. Most importantly, both the guy and the girl have to be able to get along with one another. The key to friendships/relationships is communication. I am currently in this situation right now. A guy with the personality that I would desire but we're currently friends right this moment, even though I have already confessed me interest in him. Personally I feel that he would only want to be friends with me even though he's glad being liked by someone is a good thing.
2016-03-29 05:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out as friends, not on a date. Make that clear. Then if you do not hit it off, he is not hurt.
Personality has a lot to do with a relationship. Feelings can grow on that, and if they do, so will the physical attraction.
If nothing comes of it, then you remain friends, an no one gets hurt.
2007-01-02 17:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by tequilagold_32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that...
Unfortunately, the first thing that attracts one person to another is physical appearance. Other qualities are inportant, but looks uaually rate first.
I was able to become friends with someone (a long long time ago) that I wasn't attracted to. Eventually, we started dating. It was a great relationship (between the two of us) but I was ashamed of what my friends would think when they found out. To my surprise, my real friends were very accepting and didn't judge. This helped me to get over my insecurities.
If this is the man who makes you happy...go for it!
2007-01-02 17:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Summer Breeze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a guy like that, he isn't that bad looking, but I feel more attracted to what is inside of him, and it is fine with me
2007-01-02 18:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by squirrely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it once. You know beauty is only skin deep. I loved his personality which mad me attracted to him. But honey dont do what I did. I mean atleast date someone in which you love his peronality and his looks.
2007-01-02 17:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep; Have you heard the quote "Beauty fades...dumb is forever."
That means looks disappear but the inside (personality) stays.
If you date a sexy person with a bad personality...it won't last.
2007-01-02 17:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were emotionally, financially and spiritually stable, definately! The physical part can always grow.
2007-01-02 17:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by htowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If I'm attached to someone mentally, in my eyes he'll look better than any other guys.
2007-01-02 17:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋