Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. Then he took me home, and when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me every once in awhile. By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. So what does he REALLY want?
2007-01-02 17:34:03 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is insecure and just wants a friend to do things with. Let him go and find someone that values your time with him and wants to be with you!!!!
2007-01-02 17:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to TRY to have sex with you, thats what I would think and I think your a dumb a** if a guy is that clear with you that he wants to see u once in a while, whats the gain of even being his friend? By gain I mean are you wasting your time? do u really want to be friends with someone like this? what would you gain from this experience? I would say feeling like a whore.
2007-01-03 01:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what probably happened:
he broke up with you
found someone new
didn't work out
might have found someone else
lost that chance too
not he's realizing you were the best choice to begin with
he's sorry.
he's a moron
he's into you again?
or he just wants you close.. in case he does miss you.. eventually... either way.. i'd say you shouldnt' have gone on that date.. and lose him.. before you get heart broken.... again!
2007-01-03 01:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Seems like he wanted a bootie call to me. But if you really did tell him you were holding out for marrige I am at a loss.
2007-01-03 01:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Killa Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he dumped you doesn't mean he doesn't have fond memories or feelings for you and just wants to re-visit the past.
2007-01-03 01:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that he still likes you .
But more importantly is how you feel about him.
Do you want to start things up again??
Do what is best for you
2007-01-03 01:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Susan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know because Im not friends with my exs.
2007-01-03 01:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wants to hang-onto you til you are ready to have sex, but still be free to do what ever wants...Same with most men..the cake and eat it too thing...they are dogs............
2007-01-03 01:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idonno. but once i heard on kissfm a twisted story. how a chik went bak to her 3 years ago bf and told him "i want my shower curtain, toothbrush, chair, carpet..bak."
2007-01-03 01:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by missannazhoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question has already been answered in another posting you posted. Good Luck.
2007-01-03 01:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋