I had that happen before. First ask yourself, does she like you the same the way you like her? I mean if she's flirting with you and teasing you and you find it difficult to do anything. I'd say, walk right up to her and see if she'd like to take it to another level. If she agrees, then cool. Just satisfy her once and never look back. I did, it works. My sister-in-law was soooo fine. She was urging and I so was I. We had sex intimately once and then moved on with our lives. You need to fullfill yourself, bro... Do it and bail.....
2007-01-02 18:29:42
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answered by Mindscrambler 30 2
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Well if it is the "love" as in family love than good for you and good that you have a nice relationship. However, if it is the love as in I want to be with you or spend my time or life with you, then you have a major problem. I don't care if she even reciprocates with her emotions of love to you. That is just soooooooo not right to your own family member and I would stop what you are thinking, feeling as soon as possible! Look, there are many people who want companionship, friendship and love out there, who are SINGLE, so take a leap of faith that there is somebody who isn't taken out there and go for it. See, it is less of a risk really in your mind that you can want her, and all of it when you know you can't have her, that's just sickness. So go and lead a healthy life, you owe it to yourself!!!! Good luck!
2007-01-02 17:26:20
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answered by Laurie S 4
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I'd say Yur lucky she's even around enough to get you thinking you love her, chuck. Go and get some of your own puss cuz you aren't showing much respect for her or your brother - most definitely none for yourself. She WASN'T manifested through anything you created and that basically translates into that she's not yours to f*ck with - so you need to find a way to get over it. It is possible for you to channel this drive of you're having into finding your own tail. Find some pride in yourself by getting off your a$$ and making something happen with some of the millions of potential females you can connect with you stupid bastard. Get up and do something courageous with yourself cuz your actions will speak louder than words - most definitely louder those twisted thoughts and convictions you're having that are so ill-conceived.
2007-01-02 17:37:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Fall out of love with her, NOW. It will only bring grief to all around. Don't go pining away imagining yourself to be a romantic tragic hero. Life is not a movie or a novel. Don't let this go any further.
2007-01-02 17:11:56
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answered by Anonymous
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You can't do that! First of all it's your brother's wife and secondly, there are a lot of fish in sea, you don't need to fall for your brothers wife! Think of the long term complications not only with your brother but the rest of your family! You're not in love with her you're just infatuated would be my guess
2007-01-02 17:11:25
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answered by Mattie P 1
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You know you know better. Try to find your own person to love that won't hurt your sibling. If you chose to be self-centered and think of only yourself then go ahead and enjoy the Karma and remember when you plant one seed you get multiplied returned. Choose and get ready.
2007-01-02 17:30:22
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answered by MeHurdu 4
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You can't prevent a bird from flying over your head but you can prevent them from building a nest there.
These things do happen. Do not entertain the thought!!!! she is your sister-in-law!!!
2007-01-02 17:10:18
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answered by Lady Mandeville 6
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pretty pretty pretty please ignore those feelings. Try to avoid her as much as possible. Don't let your feelings show. The worst thing siblings can do to each other is get involved their significant other. Always remember that family is the most important thing in the whole world and with out them life will be unbearable. Through thick and thin family will never abandon you. Please don't do this to your brother. You'll regret it forever.
2007-01-02 17:31:41
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answered by Anonymous
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love like a sister or like a lover
2007-01-02 17:10:24
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answered by !kyradarkmoon! 3
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Try to forget about it, don't make life crazy and feel guilty. u can have better life with someone else, i suggest u better go outing with some friend every where u like
2007-01-02 17:14:04
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answered by itafa 1
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