I was wondering, because too I have a guilty conscious, and sometimes if I feel upset or guilty I'd talk to my girlfriend. And I felt real bad because I stumbled onto a certain web site... I felt like was cheating on her. When I told her, she acted a little surprised. I wasn't sure what she was thinking and she asked to show her the site. so I did. She said it wasn't that bad and that it was okay and not to feel bad. I know this sounds sappy, just reply.
Mature answers please.
2007-01-02 17:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I am a dumbass.
2007-01-02 17:21:54 · update #1
I would be one of the girls that Loves an honest guy it helps the communication part of the relationship your girl has to be the luckiest woman i know keep up the good work.
2007-01-02 17:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you kinda answered it yourself with the "yeah im a dumbass".
Guys watch porn all the time, and do other things to that don't really affect the relationship. I say don't tell her, what good would come from it?
It's one thing if you cheated on her and could never forget about it, but miniscule acts like that i say don't tell.
2007-01-03 01:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by wacko0500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, so long you do it in a gentle manner. If you do otherwise, you're just being a jerk. Of course, it depends on the girl.
My friend's boyfriend told her about his insecurities (long story) and although she's not happy about it, she's very glad to know that he told her and is not keeping it a secret from her. You need trust to ground a relationship.
2007-01-03 01:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Θ Chez Θ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body male or female want honest friends. but when they have a crush, honest doesn't matter any more. you catch them in a lie and forgive and forget. once a lyer always a lyer.
nobody can catch you being honest. when you lie, you better remember what you said. the truth you won't worry about what you said. the truth is always the truth.
2007-01-03 01:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by jack b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I think it is pretty kewl that you told her that but she was prolly thinkin woah why tmi so next time you happen to stumble across one on these sites just keep it to ur self and don't feel bad about it cuz since you told her once she knows u prolly do it often now and DO NOT LIE about anything else and if you can't go to one of those websites without telling her then DON'T GO TO THEM!!!
2007-01-03 01:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes girls like it when their guy is honest with them! If you are not ready to tell your girlfriend something yet...it might not be the right timing.
2007-01-03 01:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by travel4christ1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends if its some thing terable that whould ruin her life if you told her than dont tell her but anything like going to a website or looking at porn and looking at some girls but or something like that you should tell her and mostly ya girls do like honest guys
2007-01-03 01:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by buddyface15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like honest guys. no honest means no secure in the life after marriage..even before i think...dude, its good for you if you are and be an honest guy to your girlfriend...!!
2007-01-03 01:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by bbpitpit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good that you told her but you can not cheat on someone with your eyes she probly was wierded out that you actually thought that was cheating so dont worry about it and have funn with your eyes they keep secrets they wont tell on you and try to understand that its okay
2007-01-03 01:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by crazychick_z5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like honesty, but there are certain things we are better off NOT knowing...like things that will hurt or make us jealous.
2007-01-03 01:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋