it's new year and I went out with mate friend and his girl (22) I’m 28 and well he was being sheighty all night to both of us and well one thing lead to another and we ended up in bed.… well next morning when me and B woke up she said that she would dump him cause she liked me more and well I just don't know how to play it I really like her allot and well she seem to like me and well everyone around said we were the perfect couple but I’ve tried to contact her and she wont answer my text’s ….and I’m in love for the first time in years I just think that she is going to break my heart WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!! THIS WAS NOT A ONE NIGHT STAND FOR ME
2007-01-02 17:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by aka.fifth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say, please be careful that you haven't fallen for the wrong girl. If she fell in bed with you while dating your friend, its possible, that she will fall in bed with another , while, and if, you and she hook up.
You seem very genuine and I think you will find the right girl. I wouldn't contact her anymore since she is not responding to your text. Good luck and guard that heart of yours.... it' s a nice one. (By the way, did you really fall in love overnight?)
2007-01-02 17:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with someone before you both know where you stand with each other is generally not very helpful. If you really cared about this girl, you would have waited before you slept with her.
Maybe it will work out- but I cant say for sure. Unfortuantely its anyones guess at this point. None of us can read this girls mind! I can only guess that since she hasnt been in contact that she's either feeling:
*confused (because she isnt too sure what she really wants)
*guilty (because she has a bf)
*regretful (because mayb she feels that it wasnt what she really wanted, or that she feels bad for cheating on her bf)
Either way you wont know until you ask her for yourself. And you probably better think about how much this girl means to you versus how much ur mate means to you.
All the best, and take care.
2007-01-02 17:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Jude. this may not have been a one night stand with a stranger, but it was a casual sex encounter with someone you were not in a relationship with.. even worse, it was sex with someone who was dating your friend!
it's one thing to cheat, but even worse when the cheating happens with a guy's best friend..
she's obviously not into love or relationships. she's just looking for sex.. if she'll cheat on him, then she'll cheat on you too.. and besides, she doesn't seem interested in anything more than sex..
you seem to want more than meaningless sex, so chalk this up as a bad experience, and learn from it, and never do that again.
try to save your friendship with the guy, but stay clear of the girl.
2007-01-02 17:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept with your mates girlfriend?
What kind of guy are you. You don't do that to your friend. If you liked her you should have waited till she finished with your friend.
2007-01-02 17:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy come easy go.may be may not be
2007-01-02 21:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋