im really shy when im around girls........what should i do?

Question

help

no "be your selfs"

Answer 1

1 approach
2conversate
3set up date
4both of you 2 get drunk
5remember what happened

Answer 2

Ask yourself why you are shy. People of the opposite sex are just people like yourself. Are you self conscious about your looks, body odor, or afraid you might say the wrong thing.
If it's looks, then don't try shooting for the Carmen Elektras in the crowd. If it's body odor, just get good deodorant. If it's about saying the wrong thing, there are a couple of things you can try. Some of these tips are out there, but do work. If you have a female relative, talk to her as much as possible. That should get you used to talking to girls and she can also give you tips too.
Try joining a chat group online. Get used to chatting online and then move up to the real thing. You can go to meetup.com and find a group in your area and join. There are many different kinds and I am sure you can find one that will suit your interests.
Basically, just talk to as many girls as possible without thinking that she's a girl. I have met people like yourself. The first thing you need to do is just be comfortable being you and don't worry what others think. Good luck.

Answer 3

I used to be shy around guys when I was younger. It was because I didn't have a lot of experience or confidence around them. You should first work on your confidence by finding out what you have to offer a girl (are you funny, nice, good at listening, etc., etc., etc.) After you have found confidence, just think about it this way: you have something great to share and any girl should want to talk to you.

At first, make baby steps: say hi to a girl that you know, smile, etc. You can build on that and eventually make conversations with them.

Just remember, it's all about confidence, and you should have no reason to feel silly talking to girls!

If you feel nervous about it, visualize what you are going to say/do before you approach a girl. Go through it in your head and this will calm you down and prepare you for the real thing:)

Answer 4

Well, unfortunately, I was going to say just be yourself, before I saw that you didn't want that response. But, seriously, it is true. I love shy guys. It is such a turn on to me. You have to find something to focus on to take away your anxiety about being shy. It is who you are and you can't help it. It will get better with time, if you are old enough, try going out to a bar and drinking.........ALOT, and see if that helps at all, at least you will know that you can do it.

Answer 5

lol...okay. Don't be yourself. If you are interested in someone, see if you can find out an interest she has that you may share. Best to have some sort of ice breaker. I also have heard good places to meet people and have an automatic topic to discuss is a place with a beautiful view. Shyness is not a curse though. SOmeone will bring the animal out in you! Good Luck!

Answer 6

just realize that girls are people just like anyone else! and I mean that. take a few deep breaths, and make yourself say hi to a couple of girls, and smile when you do it. you'll be proud of yourself and it will build self-confidence. then start adding a little conversation with that hi. just say something like hi, how are you doing? just take baby steps. but do make yourself get out of your comfort zone. if you don't you'll never get over that shyness. and even though you may be quivering on the inside like jello, never let it show. walk with good posture, hold your head up, and be proud of who you are, and who you're becoming. just push yourself a little at a time to be around girls and talk to them just like you would anyone else, and before long, you'll be surprised at the progress you will have made. and all the girls you'll be friends with! it's a start!
Good Luck With Everything!

Answer 7

Lack of confidence in yourself is definately not admired by most girls. All you can do is try to practice your conversational skills. Go to the mall and just randomly ask girls questions... where things are, if they know the time, etc. Start off small then build on getting over you're nervousness.

Answer 8

talk to girls u aren't shy around and than go and start talkin to girls u find no intrest in and than move up to girls u like but in that case do the 3 second rule- answer after 3 seconds after every other question! take your time and good luck!

Answer 9

it really is true
honesty is the best policy
by being yourself u r being honest with them
they like that
that doesnt mean u do or say just anything that pops in your head
but be yourself and stay true to your heart and soul
besides many girls like shy guys
so dont worry too much
just relax and be natural
goodluck

Answer 10

Like someone just said"be yourself" and just watch the magic happen. When people try to be someone they're not they tend to live a lie and get confused within themselves. You'll attract someone like yourself if you make the first move in a positive way and be nice!