We had being frds pasr 5 yrs (online frds) couple months ago he asked me out and I said 'yes' now he is comming down to meet me I am very nervous Is it normal? I am excited to see him but nervous to face him is it normal?
2007-01-02 16:53:21 · 14 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clear your mind for any abnormality. 5 years is a big deal. I hope u know a great deal of him and might be knowing how old he is and what he does. As someone suggested to be careful, I do feel you should take precautions and be prepared for. But still, remaining involved for 5 years means a lot and it sounds omnious.
Excitement is always there when u tend to meet a guy whom you have not seen but is in touch. Let it remain and I wish the excitement spills over and you enjoy the meeting. All the best.
2007-01-02 18:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I have been in your position before except I was younger when I met the special guy I didn't know if it was going to be the same. I say if you be yourself just as you do online then it should go well. Don't stress yourself. Is he in love with you would be a question of mine? What has he said about how he feels meeting you for the first time? And, have y'all had video chats? Just take a deep breath and hope for the best. I wish you the best!!! I know the first time is the big impression but just keep your cool b /c I'm sure he may be wondering just as you are. You can sense a chemistry on the first time having met. I know.
2016-05-22 21:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to be nervous. After all you do not know the guy really well. Th e problem with the online friendship is that the person can practically hide himself/herself or even act in proxy. You would come to know about his age, appearence, traits etc. only when you meet him.
So, follow your instincts & intuition; be more nervous than excited; meet at a relatively safe place; judge the person in the first meeting and then decide your further course of action.
Good Luck.
2007-01-02 17:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had meetings such as yours -- some turned OK, some not so OK, final outcome it was not a great experience. back to you -- it could be the same or different. hard to tell from a distance. here are a couple of rules : a, meet only in public place where there are lots of people -- do not move from a public place to a private place even if you have established confidence. b. advise/tell a good friend of yours the timing of the meeting and the place and tell her to call you on your cellular within 15 to 30 min. of your encounter. if the meeting is not to your expectation --he is creepy, he is not for you, he is not what you expected -- invent a cause while talking to your girl friend and excuse yourself that some important event happened and you have to leave --that is a good diplomatic
way of handling the situation. make sure you have a ride back home or to your girl friend's home. hope it helps. you have to cover most possibilities like a good "spy" -- there are unknown circumstances in this world. good luck.
2007-01-02 17:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that's a long time to be talking with someone online. hehe... Well it's normal for you to feel nervous... meeting someone from the internet, you never know exactly what to expect. Just make sure that you end up meeting in a crowded place just so you're safer. I'm sure once you're there in person together things won't be so awkward, and they'll soothe out. Goodluck!
2007-01-02 17:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by TalkingTomato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Remember to meet him in a safe place, hopefully with friends, because you don't really know who this guy is. You can never be too careful.
My cousin talked to a guy on the internet and phone every night and he turned out to be 53 years old! (she was 17!!) You can just never tell.
As long as you have a safe way to meet him, relax. He's probably just as nervous as you are. Don't be too judgmental about his appearance...give his personality a chance first.
2007-01-02 16:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by hopewriter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i am in the same situation with you but later in my life i am probably going to be nervous and yeah and when you meet him, bring an friend or more just in case ( no second thought here i am just saying ) well i am happy with the both of you finally get to meet each other how cute XD lol i can't wait until its my turn to meet him *sigh* well good luck and take care and have a happy new year !
2007-01-02 16:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural because when ever you meet first time any body that time every body nervous.I am not talking that type person who's are habitual but first time they also nervous.and some persons feeling hesitate they can't face any body.which person they like a lot they will goes there.any way If you like any body i can't see front and back.any body say any thing else you don't care about that....................but some where if you will be wrong definitely in your mind comes a.............? what am I write.If you are write definitely other person would be write............
2007-01-02 19:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by sumit s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U've shared photos? No problem age? 5 yrs wow!!! Ok. keep cool, relax! show confidence, and be at ease. I wish u the best of luck!
2007-01-02 18:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by r33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be nervous. chill u have been freinds. dont worry and dont mak any preassumptions about it. let the meet be in a flow. all will be fine
2007-01-02 23:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋