so called best friend?

Question

came home from school early and caught my friend having sex with my boyfriend she hyping on me telling everyone what she did and boy friend promist to kill me if i leave he also want us to have a three som did i mention he is five year older than me i am 17

Answer 1

She is not your friend and he should no longer be your boyfriend. You do not have to put up with that kind of betrayal. Also it might not seem like it now, but there is a huge difference between 17 and 22. Break up with him, he is a loser. If you think he will actually hurt you, then get a restraining order... but most likely he is just talking.

Answer 2

You are 17 and should be able to make a smart judgment about whether you want 3 som. Also, don't put up with someone telling you what you can and can't do. If you wanted to leave, you should've just left. 17 and 22 is not a real big age difference. Just illegal for another year.

Answer 3

First of all where in the hell is your mother allowing a 17 year old to date a man 22?? Oh hell no! Big mistake young ladies make today. First of all what can you possibly have in common with a man that age? Darling, the man is using you for his own benefits and it's definately NOT love. As far as this whole killing crap? Ever hear of trying to scare you so you won't press charges? He's a pervert preying on little girls. Stay far far away!

Answer 4

Are you that nieve? Come on now they have been planning this to happen and wanted to get caught if you ask me. You deserve to be with someone your own age for 1, 2 he should be in jail because you are still a minor and he threatened your life! 3 and this is the most important, SHE'S NO FRIEND! So, let them have each other and move on. If he cheated on you, he'll cheat on her. I am a man and I know the facts because, I used to be like that when I was younger. Karma, sweetheart, karma!

Answer 5

Well what you should do is report him for uttering threats, find some way out of the relationship and possibly talk to a counselor because that is fairly heavy. Keep first and foremost that you lost a disgusting boyfriend and a pathetic best friend.
Better luck next time.

Answer 6

First of all Im so sorry that you are going through this. My best advice is to let someone know about you ex boyfriend, if someone is threating you like this you really need to tell someone. I dont think you should be friends with ur so called best friend. A best friend would never try to hurt you. I really hope that you seek help because I dont want anything to happen to you.

Answer 7

You need to lose both of these people. They are not your friends and your boyfriend certainly doesn't love you. 1. For cheating on you 2. For threatening to kill you.

You need to get away from these two and involve the police and a restraining order if you need to.

Answer 8

leave all these nuts --aside, they are not worth your friendship. you are still young with lots of potential and decency in you. what "other so called friends" are suggesting will hunt you for the rest of your life...and for the little or no pleasure of a few seconds. forget it and get away. how? if you are in a school, university go to the counselor --they all have and you will be directed how to deal. hope it helps.it surely does if you follow the advice and good luck too. thanks for the courage to bring up so an important personal issue.

Answer 9

Umm, that's statutory rape honey. You have to be at least 18. If you're that scared of him tell your parents and/or the law.

Get yourself a boy your age and move on before you end up laid in a hospital with AIDS or in a clinic with an STD.

There are millions of guys in this world, put more value in yourself and get yourself a good one.

Answer 10

Now that you have made this issue public. I would suggest getting out of the relationship. You are still considered a minor and your description of the situation sounds like you are only headed for more problems. Good luck to you.