im 17 and i have never had a boyfriend im pretty i mean people tell me that but if so why come i havent had a boufriend my dad says it because im fat but im 6 feet tall thats what i think it is and im not really fat i have a gut thats all just is it normal for a 17 year old too never have had a boyfriend i think im pretty but no one is intrested in me why. i just dont get it ive never been into the movies with a boy or been out on a date or had a first kiss why ? is this normal for a 17 yr old what should i do ?
2007-01-02 16:43:52 · 18 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't believe your dad called you fat! How hurtful for a teenage girl to hear. In my opinion you just haven't found someone yet: no sense in forcing a relationship with someone you aren't interested in or who isn't interested in you. Girl just wait till you get to college you will have more boys to choose from than you know what to do with! (and remember, girls mature faster than boys, so they just need some time to catch up to you!)
ps: 2 of the most beautiful and smartest girls I know are both 22 and only JUST RECENTLY had their first boyfriends. You've got tons of time!!
2007-01-02 16:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality?
2007-01-02 16:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always heard that it is harder for a really pretty girl, especially if she is shy, to get asked out by guys, they are intimidated by very pretty girls. Most just assume you won't like them or go out with them so instead of being rejected they simple don't ask. Let the guys know you are available, if you have someone you like a lot drop hints around him about wanting to see a movie but no one to go with, heck it's not a sin any more for a female to ask a male out. Take a chance, flirt a little and don't let shyness ruin your chance to date.
2007-01-02 16:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with who you are and how you look, then don't worry about it being normal or wrong. There is no such thing. It's all timing. When you meet someone you think you might be interested in, then assert yourself. But be patient. You are only 17, there's plenty of time.
2007-01-02 16:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i didnt find my fist boyfriend or n e thing til i was almost 17 youll find some one just wait it out dont be in a hurry, i waited for my first boyfriend a log time he was my bestfriend for about a year b4 ne thing happend we lasted 4 years and counting....
2007-01-02 16:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by leslie0754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie dont be in no hurry to be with a man. Find out who you are and what you want out of life.The right man will come along when you least expect it. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 16:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to your dad, that's wrong of him to say. he may be saying that to keep you from asking guys out. i am sure your pretty. maybe be more outgoing, and ask other people out. ask if they would like to go have a cup of coffee or something. And yes its normal. i actually have a few friends in their mid twenties who are virgins and inexperienced, and they are just fine. good luck.
2007-01-02 17:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just "late bloomers." No need to rush into things anyway. Go to college, get your education, and then you can worry, but don't worry now.
2007-01-02 16:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to be confident, love will get to you in the right moment, you are very young and life will give you different experiences.. the real love, i mean the real love doesnt have to be with beauty, the man that loves you will see your very inside, not the outside.. dpnt hurry.. he"ll get to you...
2007-01-02 16:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by neni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfectly normal hun, people do things in different time to other people, we don't have a set time line of what age we should do certain things, don't worry yourself about it and just be happy and content with what you do have.
2007-01-02 16:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋