Ok so i am 13 yrs old, and i have 2 boyfriends i guess u could say .but anyways i got this boyfriend i have been going with for 3yrs and every thing was great in the being and now thing just suck ! all he does is argue and say hes gonna change and it never happens(so i kinda gave up on this relationship anyways) the second guy is very nice,handsome,funny,and a gentlemenand we've been together for 7 months! we been on 3 dates and the 1st guy none. i really like the second guy but me and him don't attend the same school so it's hard. But we do talk on the phone and attend the same church. Then again i dnt wanna break up with guy #1 because we can spend time and school and stuff. But(lolz) then again theirs guy#2 who is just wonderful. when it all comes down i only want one ,because this 2 at the same time isn't working.so who should i chose? and do you consider this cheating the fact that im young?
2007-01-02 16:35:30 · 19 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks every1 for u advice!
2007-01-02 16:50:15 · update #1
Kiddo , Relationships aren't about spending time in school , hanging out & sharing lunch. You say that you've been with "guy #2" for some 7 months . Looks like that your relations work great in the early months & goes down with time . So what might look very pretty in its early stages might not be after an year or two .Also you are too young to really get into serious relationships .
My advise - lay off "guy # 1" see how things go with "guy # 2" and pay more attention to your studies , hanging out with your girlfriends etc etc .Let life will take its course ...
2007-01-02 16:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, your 13, and probably just barely started your menstrual cycle. Lose both the guys, and have a childhood while you can. Leave the more serious stuff, like boyfriends to the older teens (like 16 an up, lol).
But if you want an answer as to which guy, I would say guy 2, he sounds better, and you don't have to be stuck up your bf's butt so far no one can tell where he ends and you begin. Have your own seperate things to do.
You were to young to start dating this other guy at 11, you were a child, and still are in the eyes of many.
like I said, leave the serious stuff up to the older people, go out, have fun, an don't worry about this kind of crap yet, belive me, you'll worry about it plenty as you get older.
and if the 2 guys don't know about each other, then YES it IS cheating.
2007-01-03 00:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read the first line and think its really not right, 13 yrs and 2 boyfriends, you need to go to school and learn your school work young lady, Boys is not going to give you anything when you grow up the only thing you might get is a baby, and you will have to get a part time job at a 7 11 somewhere cause you will be all alone.
Do you want that to happen to you, I guess not.
THINK ABOUT IT!!!
2007-01-03 00:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your 13... this is not something a 13 yr old should be dealing with. But to answer your question, Yes it is cheating. If you are not happy with the way things are going with guy #1 then dump him. Spending time with a guy at school is not as important as being happy and besides your at school to learn not spend time with your boyfriend.
2007-01-03 00:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the second boy,sweetie never put up with a boy like the first one if you must have one boyfriend at 13, you should'nt be dating anyway until much later in your life enjoy your youth and friends and in school get your education so you will be educated and able to make good choices in your adult life and then you won't end up like micheal and samantha or the other not so bright contributors who share inappropriate answers with 13 yr. olds. Seriously don't be in such a hurry to grow up.
2007-01-03 01:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by pink00kiton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should be with the one that u like spending time with,regardless which school who attends...You are to young for a serious commitment yet again u cant b with both those boys..So the choice is urs choose wisely i like the 2nd guy though he sounds sweet!But listen to ur heart :o)GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-03 00:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cassý 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its cheating even though your young but not in the same sense as more grown up cheating, and you should go with guy number 2 seeing as he actually shows his affection for you in greater amounts and over a much shorter time than guy #1 which if you think of it in terms of logic it just makes sense to go with the guy who is going to have the least destructive consequences for you
2007-01-03 00:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dre 5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cheating but i would go for two. hes nice, he cares for u~ and i'm 13 too and i don't rele need to do that but i can relate, one of my earlier bf's wuz al about makin out and etc~ but dats it and he never thought of anything else. and yeah but then i met this highskooler hes 15 and we've been goin out ever since but anyhow he cared for me and rele loved me but he and i were in two different grades and skools so it wuz hard but we met at church and during lunch and breaks and on weekends. its still strong between us and all we do is hold hands the other guy, all he wanted wuz lip to lip me i said no and put him down but the point. go for the one who u noe loves u!~ good luck tellin guy 1~
2007-01-03 00:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youth is not a factor in cheating. Cheating is cheating.
You seem to have already made the choice yourself by describing guy number two.
2007-01-03 00:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by VoirDire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
......
Wow,
Hmmm
Yes Your Cheating...
And
Choose No Of Them
Because Obvioulsly You Care For Neither
2007-01-03 00:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by BbC_Dude 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋