i had this boi friend for 3years he finally asked me to merry him. i got pregnate that was 4 months ago and about 6 days ago i found him chaeting on me with some ugly heffer. he better thank god my friends where there to hold me back form killing him. i got so pissed and wilded up i lost our baby. and we brock up. now what should i do to him. i fell like i lost my whole life. should i hurt him or leave him be.?
2007-01-02 16:17:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say kill him if you don't like him no more. If you still like him leave him be. Make sure that he was all over her and she was not all over him first.
2007-01-02 16:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by SenlenaHorris18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! That is horrible what he did to you while you were pregnant. You know he didn't love you or he thought he did but sadly he didn't. Its just my opinion when your significant other cheats on you they have some real problems...instead of telling you hey I'm not into this/us I want a break and then go and screw someone...but no, do it while she's carrying your baby, its just so sad to hear stories like this. The one who suffered the most from this was the baby. Maybe next time that a** will take into consideration others feelings.
2007-01-03 00:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go... revenge is never the answer... move on and find urself a guy that will love u and respect u know matter what! just make sure that u are happy... im really sorry to hear about u losing ur baby... but in sum ways it probably made things easier because now at least u dont hav to keep seeing him 4 the babys sake... Good luck! =)
2007-01-03 00:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Let him stew in his own mind. He'll realize later what he did was stupid. A wife and child is way better than a small fling with some other woman. If he ever comes crawling back to you, which he probably will, kick his ***. Never let him back into your life.
2007-01-03 00:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
defintaly sorry to hear. I have a problem being too passive even tho i have a tendency to want to kill someone. Be the "bigger man" and forget him, like dude said below be glad he showed his true colors before you set yourself up to spend the rest of your life with him.
2007-01-03 01:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by dazeded_and_confuseded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. I hope you are okay. If you're talking about religious ethics, most people would say leave him to his own misery and don't stoop to his level. But personally, yes, I would do something diabolical and very well planned so he wouldn't have any evidence it was me.
2007-01-03 00:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by xNancyxSpungenxJr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely, he isn't worth your whole life. I certainly wouldn't marry him.( maybe I didn't read the question right) Lucky you found out about him.
Hold your head up and move on!
2007-01-03 00:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i;m so sorry about what happened. that is absolutely terribly...ypu kno what, 2 wrongsdom't make a right. if you try revenge, he will hate you even nmore..givre him a phomne call and thentell him how hurt he has made you feel. then, hang up, and try to start a new life. good luck!
2007-01-03 00:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by minney mouse! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should just be the bigger person and walk away because if a guy goes and cheats on you and you found out that is his los and he didnt just lose you he lost you and his baby!
2007-01-03 00:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by hockey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most hurtful thing is to completely ignore someone.
2007-01-03 00:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kaylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋