my revious boyfriends would constantly feed me bullshit so they wouldn't have to see me around, or to get me to like them more. I'd quickly see through them. My current boyfriend is actually, surpirsingly, honest about himself anf his issues. He felt bad because he visited a porn site. He showed me, it wasn't that bad. Most guys wouldn't care. He actually felt bad and guilty, because he felt like he was cheating on me when he was lusting after some of the woman on the site. I realize that so many men are not that honest with their girlfriends, I wonder why? All my previous boyfriends would do what they could to get in my pants, and would hide their emotions and act like nothing phases them.
2007-01-02 16:09:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know girls can be dishonest too, especially around guys they don't know or trust. But in a relationship it ruins things and makes it harder to be together.
2007-01-02 16:30:23 · update #1
why only women answer these type of questions i dont know. as if they understand us better than we do? maybe they just feel like throwing mindless comments out. either way it is stupid. now for one, most men arent phased by near as much as girls are. this is one thing that most girls dont understand. they say that we hide our feelings all the time, when actually most of the time we dont even have the feelings they say we are hiding. for example. when my grandparents died a few years ago my wife got mad at me because i didnt cry or get all sad for weeks on end like a lot of girls would. when honestly i barely even knew them and though i liked what i knew, hell they were in their eighties they were gonna die eventually, just didnt think it would be both at the same time. it actually made her angry that i wasnt sad. does that make sense? so, remember sometimes it just doesnt bother us like you think it would. and as far as honesty? ive never met a guy that was near as scandalous as some of the girls that ive known. but as far as the rest of it, yes most guys lie to get into your pants. look at the rest of the animal kingdom, the males always fight over breeding rights with the females. they do what they have to, why should we be any different? we are all animals. humans are just more technologically advanced than the rest.
2007-01-02 16:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, I think that men might be 'dishonest' as you say but women with all their 'add-ons' don't exactly typify honesty. So dis honesty goes both ways. Men and women are made up differently so what you see as a major deal is not a major deal to men. but when a guy asks a woman what is wrong and she says nothing when something is wrong, that is just plain dishonest and I can't think of one woman who has not done it. So consider the fact that people are dishonest about different things, men and women.
2007-01-02 16:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in there genes. You have two options: deal with it, or go gay. It is as simple as that. The thing is that we lie just as much as they do, we just dont get caught. Also you should think about the severity of the lies.... if they are inconsequential, then let it go. So to sum it up... all men lie... even Mr. Perfect. Good Luck!
2007-01-02 16:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are so dishonest because there are alot of things that they don't want you to know about. Another reason maybe because he is cheating on you. If you feel that way about him, break-up with him or find out what he is really doing that he does not want you to find out.
2007-01-02 16:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by The Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YOU SAID HE FELT BAD FOR CHECKING THIS PORN SITE OUT WELL TO ME IT SOUNDS MORE LIKE HE IS TRYING TO SEE HOW YOU FELT ABOUT PORN! HE IS JUST TREATING YOU LIKE A MUSHRUME HE IS KEEPING YOU IN THE DARK AND FEEDING YOU BULL ****. AND YOU ARE FALLING FOR IT.
2007-01-02 17:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by smilley 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because guys are so confused they probably dont even know why they act the way they do. ok i dunno why you people are giving me thumbs down. every guy i've ever dated or know has been so confused about what he wants in life it was pathetic. at least girls know what they want in a partner. i guess because girls think about this stuff more when we're kids day dreaming about how we want our wedding and such.
2007-01-02 16:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
becuz they noe ur too good for them. or jus cuz they only wanted u for the "inside" stuff.
2007-01-02 16:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by SmilE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋