i love him yes but he want sex like any guy and i am a virgin he think i am not and i am afraid to tell cause he wont bilieve
2007-01-02 16:02:52 · 15 answers · asked by nathrilla c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two words for you: Get out.
I know that you are just looking for love from this guy, but I promise you that he did not, does not, and will not love you. It is not that you are unlovable, but that he has no idea what love is. No matter how much you hope he'll change, you'll just hurt yourself all the more, the more you run from reality. Unfortunately, you are the perfect victim to him. Until you realize that your relationship was not one of love, you will continue to drag this on, and you will have even more to suffer. You must not despair, but get up and learn from this. You are still worth waiting for.
You deserve so much better than this. And you will find someone so much better than this. IF, and I repeat IF, you make the wise decision that you are capable of making. You're not his doormat. Sure, you feel close to this guy because of how intimate you've become with him. But it's done. He'll use you as long as you're available, but you are not his toy. What if you leave him, and then he calls back in a week and says he's had a change of heart, and things will be different? Will you fall for the bait and jump back in? If you want love, you must reject its counterfeits.
You've got to realize that you're trying to save this relationship because you don't want to face the hurt if it fails. It failed when it began, and all that has happened since then is that you're trying to distract yourself from that fact. Accept that you made a big mistake that won't happen again. You're not going to get this guy to love you by being more physical with him. So get out now if you want love. Now is not too late.
Be strong. I promise you will not regret it. Will it be tough? Yes. But look at the lives of young women who refuse to be strong. Now is the time to learn the single most important word for finding love . . . NO.
2007-01-02 16:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to stay a virgin then do so because there is no turning back once you lose it. If he doesn't believe you then you need to find someone that will. You should be proud of being a virgin, not too many people can say that this day in age. I don't know how old you are but seriosly consider the pros and cons of your decision. If he loves you than you will be worth the wait. If not than you will have wasted a very precious gift.
2007-01-03 00:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by newfiemomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know how you feel about him, talk with him about your guys relationship and what you expect of it. Let him know that you are a virgin and that if he isn't okay with you waiting or not having sex with him at this point in your life, that you guys should maybe not be in that kind of relationship.
2007-01-03 00:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if ur a virgin it maybe arkward at first. if u don't want to have sex with him u don't have to. just say ur on ur period or something like that. tell him ur a virgin he may believe u if it's at day time. don't do it when ur in bed with him. (he won't believe u) best of luck
2007-01-03 00:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Yemiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different guy you can talk to. It's an important trait in forming a lasting relationship.
2007-01-03 00:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by butterflysmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just do it once then u wont be a virgin and u might like it
2007-01-03 00:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by sassy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt love you, dont waste your virginity to that man, who just want sex! you will meet another guy that dont want to have sex with you but want to MAKE LOVE to you!
2007-01-03 00:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do it unless you feel absolutely right ! It does not matter what wether he belives or not , it's all about you! You know the truth !
2007-01-03 00:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him he is not worth it, you are so much better than that, my daughter is a virgin also and proud of it
2007-01-03 00:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT COMPROMISE YOURSELF FOR ANYONE.
Your sex is the ONLY thing that you can give to your HUSBAND that no other man can have. SAVE YOURSELF for THE MAN who will appreciate your gift.
2007-01-03 00:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋