ok so heres the thing.. my boyfriend gets home in a half an hour and i need to write him an apology letter. I sent e-mails to other guys, just normal ones but i used the word hun and used some hearts and he found out and i really hurt him and i need to apologize to him for that and i want to tell him that theres no other man i want. I want him to know that i would never want us to break up & i would never cheat on him but i dont know where start. THank so Much!
2007-01-02 15:38:56 · 35 answers · asked by sweeetlover225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said it all JUST REPEAT IT TO HIM WITH A KISS !!!!
2007-01-02 15:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I don't think you should worry so much, I don't think there's any harm in calling someone hun. If it was really explicit or you were saying you wanted to be with them, then maybe he would have a point. But seeing as he did get upset and you want to apologise, say I am really sorry if I ever hurt you but I didn't mean it. You should say that you thought it was perfectly harmless and you will never do it again. At least he saw the e mails and you didn't hide them from him, if you are open with what you send to people then there's no reason why he should not trust you. Just tell him it was an honest mistake to do that and that you love him.
2007-01-02 15:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the upper hand...tell him that this relationship wont work if there is no trust or security. If he feels insecure, then you should not be together. An apology letter is kinda lame...you need to reassure him with your presence, but you didnt do anything terrible so dont be all crying begging and pleading. But I would lay off the endearments and hearts to others and save them for your guy.
2007-01-02 15:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by ♀♥☼ alycat☼♥♀ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there! Just tell him! Dont put it in a note or a letter! Its sooo much and means much more when it comes from you and your heart! Just tell him that you are sorry that you hurt him and let him know that you was just chatting! You would never do anything to hurt him and you are sorry that this did hurt him and that you will and wont do anything to ever hurt him again!
2007-01-02 15:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by nickole30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your best option for now is to tell your bf how u feel about him and what u sent to ur other male friend was just a gesture of being friendly and nothing else,equivalent to a kiss on the cheek when u greet some one. Just make sure u have to convince him how much u love ur bf. best of luck.
2007-01-02 15:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dream_Catcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u sent some emails to sum guys with hun and hearts--just tell him its ur way of communicating with other men--and besides--tell him that if he really cares about you and loves you-he should feel honest to you--i mean he should be trusting you----and don't try to flirt when ur apologizing to him---that is not very good--just try to tell him wut u feel for him and that u wouldn't live without him--just make him put more trust on you k?
i hope this helps
2007-01-02 15:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by ^_^' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wow , first thing you know thats a big nono & if you love him yes appoligize & don't do it again & be sincere , bcuz if u lose him over a computer booty call u'll regrett it forever . Let him know u were wrong & block all of those men & avoid the situation evr agin . Speaking from a married woamn with a family
2007-01-02 15:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately don't write a note/apology letter!!!!!!!!!!!
Talk to him face to face....be honest....speak from the heart....DO NOT SHED ANY TEARS!!!!!!!!! (he'll think your pooring it on thick and that your full of ****)
Do expect him to ask item specific questions about the hearts and stuff....be prepared to answer that one!!....don't bullshit though, tell him why you used the hearts, and tell him again he's the only one!
If he wants to think things over afterwards....give him time to cool off.
Do it face to face though...very important!!!!
Write a poem or something.
Good luck!
2007-01-02 15:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by onenonjohn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need lettter at all.Give him a hug, look into his eyes and say that you are so sorry for whats happened, that you really didint mean to hurt him & you didnt mean to sounds like you are flirting with this guy & tell him that it wont happen again.
Then ask him whether you can take him ouut for a nice dinner tonite and it will be your treat. you pay. He will appreciate it.
2007-01-02 15:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear _____
I am so sorry I hurt you. I am just friends with those guys, they're like brothers to me. I would never intentionally do anything that would hurt you and I am so sorry that my emailing my male friends bothered you so much. Please believe me that there is NOTHING going on between any of us. It's you I love and you I want.
Love,
________
Of course this would sound better if you just told him instead of a letter.... Tell him from your heart.
2007-01-02 15:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by the_grot_shoppe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pretty much the same thing happened to me(except on the other end), except the girl talked about wanting to have sex with the other guys, and although were broken up now, were still really close, so i would just tell him that you love him and only him
2007-01-02 15:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋