I know he's been talkin' to this Myspace whore.. I found pictures of her fake **** on HIS cell phone.. We've been togehter "all in all" for like three years.. He keeps givin' me the run around.. I know it's cause of all the fake bitches.. He's told me he loved me and I believed him.. But I'm not going to tolerate this BULLSH*T anymore. I'm sick and tired of b eing treated lik some lame slut. I'm an honest woman who loves with all her heart. I'm not deceitful and I don't lie or cheat.. I just wish I could trust him..
I want to keep believeing he's being honest 'causE I believe everyone deserves a second chance.. 'cause no one is perfect and perfection doesn't exist..
Why do us women always keep tryin' to work things out? My heart tells me not to give up but my soul is screaming at me tellin' me to stop 'cause it hurts so much.
Girls, what would you say to your man if he treated you like this??
Please, don't call me stupid or whatever.
I'm asking for HELP, not putdowns.
2007-01-02 15:30:30 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ Scorpio X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust him, then you don't have a real relationship. Show him the door. Good men don't treat their girlfriends and wifes that way.
2007-01-02 15:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by spitonapit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us girls are emotional beings, that's why it's difficult for us to stop loving someone just because of this and that. We find it hard not to forgive and not to give chance after chance because our strong feelings get all wrapped up in knots and we can't seem to unravel them, even if it's for our own sake. This is not to say that guys aren't capable of feeling as deep as we do. Men and Women are made up differently. Neverheless, enough is truly enough. No one should ever hurt anyone so badly and especially over and over again. There's a time when we have to step back, take an overall picture of everything and decide how much can we really take before it tears us up completely. It's all for your own self respect and happiness. You deserve better. You're right. No one is perfect, but you're not asking for that, just some loyalty and devotion. It's your decision if you want to give him another chance. I have a feeling that he won't change his ways.
2007-01-02 15:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you must listen to your head and not your heart. He has proven he doesn't really love you time and again. You don't want to admit defeat. Women always want to be "the one" to make a man change his roaming ways and stay with us. You are fighting a losing battle. If he really cared, he wouldn't be trolling on myspace. He's telling you "I lovey you baby, while at the same time looking to see if he can find someone better. Dump him. Find a man that WILL love you and only you. You can't have a relationship with a man you can't trust..........
2007-01-02 15:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, no putdowns
but why are you even on here asking sylly questions when you already know what the answer is, he is playing you and using you and you are still trying to hang onto him
what most girls should do is just dump the loser and move on
but what most girls really do is sit and cry and scream how they love him and chase the guy around trying to force him to treat them right and take all the abuse till their self esteem is shot to hell
please don't do that, don't waste your time in a situation that will leave you mentally devestated and destroyed and unable to function properly in another relationship that will be good
this is not healthy
2007-01-02 15:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not stupid your afraid too say goodbye,Ive been in the same situation and ive also busted him of course he told me i love you and i thought he deleted her but now i found out he has her on here also on the myspace IM.Just play along with him like i,m doing then drop him don,t fall for a playa,s B.S.,Your a very pretty girl and can get yourself a nice guy.Dari
2007-01-03 14:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him anything. Just get out! You will not even believe how much happier you will be. It will be hard for a few weeks and after that the relief will roll in. He will know why you are leaving. If he acts like he doesn't, let him know, you know he's messin around.
You know he's being dishonest. Love yourself, respect yourself and get out.
2007-01-02 15:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by K W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think you have a case like my sister. You are the girl that meets the family and she is the girl in the dark.I have seen my sister be this guys fool for so long,I cant change her mind.He tells her excuses and she believes him. I'm gonna tell you the same thing I tried to tell her leave him but stay if you want to continue to be his fool.
2007-01-02 15:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by meka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste more than 2 or 3 yrs. on a relationship without a
firm commitment of marriage...
You sound like you need to break-up and move on..
The best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love...
2007-01-02 15:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's put it this way, if he's real he wouldn't put u through it, baby girl Im in my 30's & lemme tell u if a man's real u'll know it. I waited 3 years to see hwat my husband was going to be like b4 i married him. We have been married for over 13 years 7 counting. An ex of his got a job working at customer sevice where he works & when he realized who she was hw wanted me up ther everyday to show her he's with me & only me , if i wans't with him he asked to bring our kids with him to show her it ain't happening. he wouldn't be havin pictures or chattin with females if he loved and respected you , love yourself & lose the zero & be your own hero. Be true to yourself & don't put so much trust in someone.
2007-01-02 15:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicely ask him if he's cheating on you. Nicely tell him you're leaving him. Nicely pack your things and get the hell out. When you're with your hot new Non cheating man, nicely say hi and walk away smiling. Don't show anger, he'll miss you all the more...and trust me girl, he'll miss you if you've been good to him.
2007-01-02 15:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Bo B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋