I dated my ex-boyfriend for one month, but it felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot. After one month, HE ended it saying he was 'busy'. We had a very innocent relationship, no sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. In fact, it never went past kissing. He would still say hi to me on msn even after it was over. It has been almost one year since the break up & i was really surprised when last week he called me & asked me to see hi . He planned the whole thing, (a movie), then he took me home. But I felt kinda hurt when I came home cuz I felt like it was rushed, & it seemed like he didn't wanna be there. When I got home I told him on msn that we don't need to meet up again & I basically said bye forever. He kept saying sorry & I logged out. Then a few days later I went on msn & said sorry. He was fine with it, & told me to "stay in touch" with him. My Question is: why does he wanna see now now after one year?
2007-01-02 15:28:47 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me every once in awhile. Bt he's 25, much more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf. Is he a player & just hoping I'll give in or does he wanna be friends? What's his deal?
2007-01-02 15:29:59 · update #1
It sounds like there is a chance for you 2 guys he is fond of you and likewise of him probably his sexual frustration is stopping the relationship of going further or maybe he remembered the friendship in his head different to reality maybe ask him
2007-01-02 15:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Gavin T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm still friends w/ one of my exes. Actually were like the BEST friends ever and sometimes after dating someone you realize that you like the relationship more when its just a friendship and nothing more. Its like not having any strings attached. Maybe he likes being with you and talking to you and I don't think that's a bad thing. I actually hate it when I cant stay friends with my exes so you should feel happy. And then again he could be getting feelings back for you. You never know.
2007-01-02 15:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm the question is. how do you feel about each other. i mean it all depends on how your relationship ended. because you can stay friends but thats after a long while of distance. it takes time for a couple to step down to the friend zone. luckily its good that its no sex. but id say, its a undefined situation. it shouldnt be happening. you should both move on with your life for a few years. then you can be friends and talk about the relationship you once had and stay platonic.
2007-01-02 15:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just trying to be nice, but if you dont want to hang out with him just dont.
2007-01-02 15:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋