There is this girl Im physically attracted to but she is not my type. She is irresistible I try to avoid her a all cost ,I say hi then keep going I dont hold a long conversation she probably thinks Im shy which Im not, but I cant keep this up. She is not the type to have a one night stand What do I do?
2007-01-02 15:23:21 · 18 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be honest. Tell her how you feel, not about the attraction part, but you can ask her out. Good Luck! '-)
2007-01-02 15:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though the sexual/physical attraction is there, maybe knowing how you feel and that she is not the one-night stand girl... means it is time to get over the one-night stands and possibly ask her out to see if a relationship is there. If not... don't avoid her, talk to her and let her know how you feel... but don't use her. She will hate you for it and you might find yourself hating you over it knowing she wasn't like that to begin with.
2007-01-02 15:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tell her the truth, I know its a CRAZY idea, but its usually better to just tell her. She would be angry and hurt if you just had sex with her then you said well sorry I tried but I just cant be anything more then a one nighter, and if you keep avoiding her she will try harder and you may unintentionally give in then hurt her. Just tell her you think shes bangin and you are not looking for anything as far as a relationship and you don't want to hurt someone as awesome as she is. Maybe you will find a great friend in doing so.
2007-01-02 15:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y R U trying to avoid her? and what do u mean she's not ur type?
She may be the one. Sometimes we are attracted to the ones we either can't have or the ones we least expected to to end up with. So u should at least talk with er and get to know her. Who knows she may be the one u end up marrying and living happliy ever after.
2007-01-02 15:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that the 4 link set up they sell at lowes with the 6 lug.
2007-01-02 15:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from a girl, you should try to talk to her more and even though you may seen shy even though your not, nut you should try new things...like when you were little when you didnt like something but when you actually tried it you liked it..so just give it a try and if you still feel this way then try just to be friends with her until you get more comfortable near her.
2007-01-02 15:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is your type and you are restricting your options.
Also, she may not give you the option of having an one night stand with her.
2007-01-02 15:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm thats hard to answer but you gotta figure it out maybe she may be your type you might be so into her body that you just should talk to her and look at her personailty that might change the way you look at her for the good or the bad
2007-01-02 15:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "not my type"? If you are attracted to her than obviously she is your type. Maybe you need to change your idea about what your "type" is.
2007-01-02 15:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a JERK... I don't know any girl who is decent enough to want a one night stand with a guy who is only attracted to her body...
2007-01-02 15:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by make love not war 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋