I mean he doesn't look at me in that special way all the time. But once in a while I swear I catch him glancing down at my chest. Or when I'm fixed up a little differently like my hair and dressed a little different I can tell he taking notice. Does this mean he at least finds me attractive. Because he has a lot of girls that are friends that aren't that great. He's patted them on the back and everything. And one time when I was nervous about something he patted me on the back like 3 times but this was probably just him being him. So from what I've said do you think he at least finds me kind of attractive?
2007-01-02 15:23:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll let you in on a guy secret so don't tell anybody. We're ALWAYS lookin'!!! If you're at least kinda cute...we'll check you out. If we've had a couple of drinks...basically...you just have to have boobs...we're checkin' you out!!!
Hope that helps. :)
2007-01-02 15:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Da Phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been guilty of this, but in the opposite direction. As a gay man, I saw this person who I thought to myself "He's so hot!", then when the person turned the corner, I realized it was a girl! (Her shirt pressed into her chest, revealing the breasts - she was a wearing a loose shirt that she looked like she had a man's chest when she walked by earlier.) She had a crew cut (I have a military fetish myself) and was really, really well built, very "masculine" in appearance. So I have to say that while I identify myself as 100% gay, I was at the very least attracted to a woman - who looked exactly like a man! So I guess that's it - we are attracted to looks/outer appearances. I speak for myself, because there are people appreciative - or even demanding of - people with female breasts but male genitals. It's not my cup of tea, I like men, period. That means the shaft, the balls - yes, it's graphic, but once I knew the person I had a crush on was a woman, I couldn't get the image of her female breasts out of my mind, and I almost threw up my coffee. To answer your question, it is entirely possible for a straight guy to fall head over heels over someone who looks like a woman, but is actually a man (genital wise). I know this from personal experience - in reverse. But I don't think it's a lie - their attraction was based on outer appearance, and appearances are culturally determined. (Some cultures consider it okay for men to hold hands and wear skirts, even kiss each other on the lips.) Culture would have a lot to do with what we find appropriate and possibly attractive.
2016-03-29 05:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy ur a girl
U BET HE'S CHECKING U OUT =-)
Just because u and he are friends doens't stop him for having feelings for u I mean that how some relationships start out as friends.
So if he's checking u out and u like him in a more the friend way go for it.
I mean whats the harm?
2007-01-02 15:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh course he finds you attractive, many times a guy meets a girl he really likes but she may not like him and they end up in the "friend" zone but rest assured he still finds you attractive and if you ever wanted to leave that zone, he would be there
2007-01-02 15:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by drepeterson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. well i do have friends who are girls and i check them out, not intentionally. you guys do what you do regularly. but there certain actions you dont notice that men notice. especially like you said when he looks are your chest. he may at times, check your bumper at times. but it just cuz it could be you bending over getting something for real. not because you want him to check it out. it happens. which im sure girls do the same.
am i right or wrong. anyway. i guess he is checking you out from what it sounds. but again. its hard to say. we all check each other out.
2007-01-02 15:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by funky_homosapien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he definetly thinks ur attractive. but if he keeps looking down ur shirt, he only is attracted to the way u look. guys like what girls have. but if hespends time with u, and talks to u alot more, and walks with u down the hall at skool, then he likes u.
hope this helps =-]
2007-01-02 15:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by TiBs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. All guys look at girls regardless of whether they're attractive or not.
2007-01-02 15:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but there are 2 types of attraction those who have a pretty faces and those who have body features that are attractive
2007-01-02 15:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is being very "jumping-to-conclusions-ish" but perhaps he really likes you but he does not want to mess up a friendship?
2007-01-02 15:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by heartshapedbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
beauty in in the eye of the beholder !
2007-01-02 15:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋