im a freshman and he's a senior.
we've been friends for like 3 months.
he texts me all the time and whenever i sign on he IMs me right away, same if he signs on, with in a minute he IMs me.
I don't see him that much in school but whenever i do he like pushes me or something. (not in a mean way)
and a few nights ago he randomly showed up outside my house. and called me and told me to come outside. ...it was kinda creepy.
idk. it sounds like he might like me.
but he can act really weird sometimes. and his and my sisters relationship is weird. they hate each other so much and hes really mean to her and has made her cry before.
so he might be doing this to get her mad?
idk. but hes a really nice guy and is friends with everyone in our school and the only person ive ever heard of him being mean to is my sister. (who was mean to him first so..)
ahhh idk. i just don't wanna start liking him to be let down.
2007-01-02 15:17:53 · 20 answers · asked by hey there 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh. and he's constantly talking to me about other girls and asking me for advice.
so he might just think of me as a friend. idk.
2007-01-02 15:23:07 · update #1
also. i forgot to add...
he made my sister cry when he was a sophmore and my sister was a freshman. haha
so it was kinda awhile ago. but they still hate each other to this day.
2007-01-02 15:27:01 · update #2
He likes you.
2007-01-02 15:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the age gap is too much. If he's a senior, why is he not with a girl closer to his age? Could be a red flag about his maturity level, also evidenced by him making your sister CRY. And, about not wanting to start liking him and being let down, sounds like you might already like him... IMO you should stick to being friends. Keep in mind that he'll be graduating soon, why start something with someone who will be leaving while you still have 3 more years to enjoy?
2007-01-02 15:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is at least interested in being good buds with you. I wouldn't worry about how he and your sister get along at this point. Ask him over to your house watch a movie, to go get a Coke, over for a snack before or after a basketball game, or something simple. See how he reacts to that. Not exactly a date, but it will be a start so you can tell how he acts around you a little better without committing to liking him right away.
2007-01-02 15:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sweetmusic ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman, her background, and the situation. The reasons can vary greatly. It can be low self-esteem and a lack of confidence (likely candidate). It can be mental illness. It can be economics. It can be fear-- fear of the unknown, or fear of the lover himself. Think of this: ever hear those stories where some guy shoots his wife or girlfriend then kills himself? Happens a lot. 9 times out of 10 it happens when the woman decides to leave. Don't know if that is the situation here, but it is food for thought. Good luck!
2016-05-22 21:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me likes hes totally crushing on you. Yea im a freshman too and well i like older guys theres nothing wrong with the age or anything. but if he treats ur sister mean, then you might wanna think twice. other then that. totally go for it girlfriend. good luck
2007-01-02 15:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a guy I know who does the same thing. The guy I know, I think he's wierd and would never start a relationship with him. He always hits on me and I have even told him I don't like him and then he says he doesn't like me but acts flirty and smiles beyond belief as soon as he sees me. I would say, listen to your instincts. He's wierd and creepy. Stay away!
2007-01-02 15:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out by asking him yourself or having a friend get it out of him. And if he does talk to him and yoursister and see if you cant get them to be friends. Maybe theyll do that for you. And if hes just doing it to be mean to your sister I say call the cops and get a restarning order Cause hes an A!S!S And he dont needa be around you or your sister
2007-01-02 15:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was me when I was in high school! Exactly! Even with the knowing everyone in school thing. He liked me, but at first I didn't really like him that much, but we started dating, and we've been together ever since!
2007-01-02 15:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the girl who said age doesnt matter...in this case if does...Its creepy and illegal and why do you think he cant find someone his own age? he's a loser who does sound like he likes you. It wouldnt surprise me if he only wanted sex. I think i know 14 year olds more mature then this guys sounds.
2007-01-02 15:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes u
2007-01-02 15:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away. he sounds like an abused. You don't want that kind of relationship - trust me
2007-01-02 15:21:02 · answer #11 · answered by the_grot_shoppe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋