My Mother got re-married a year ago since than my step brother always walks in on me while im changing or in the shower. he says he doesnt mean to. Ive also caught him watching me and my boyfriend make out and other things. what is the deal ive asked him to stop and told my step dad and mother about it.
My Step sister has caught him Masterbating to my picture also.
what should i do?
we are both 17.
2007-01-02 15:17:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im not an idiot.
we dont have locks on our doors.
old house and parents rules.
2007-01-02 15:25:45 · update #1
im not an idiot.
we dont have locks on our doors.
old house and parents rules.
2007-01-02 15:26:10 · update #2
Okay you don't have locks on the doors. Go to a hardware store and tell a salesperson that you need a wedge or door stop to put under the door to keep it closed. They are usually made of rubber. cost about 2 dollars at lowes or home depot.
When you are in the shower or changing. just take that wedge and stick it on the floor beneath the door. He won't be able to open the door.
2007-01-02 15:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Step dad will not understand in this instance as mom will. She would not like it if he was doing this to her, I can guarantee it.
Sit mom down, and you and step sis talk to her. Ask for locks. (I dont have them either, but have never needed them - in this case they are needed). He is not a little boy being curious, he is a pervert that if not stopped, might do some real harm to someone.
If parents to not do anything, talk to a grandparent, or a school counselor. They will be able to steer you in the right direction.
Ok, enough of the parent speech!!!! If it were me, I'd get even. Get a bunch of girls together, and when he is in the shower, all of you decide to use the bathroom at the same time. Oops, didnt know you were in there. (Make sure you have a camera ready, and use it.)
A camera is a good tool, you can use it to catch him in the act of a lot of the things he is doing. Have a video camera, set it up to watch the door when you are showering or changing. then you have proof he is doing it. Step sis can help also. She is a good witness.
Also, hunting supply stores sell some really foul smelling things. If he is sprayed each time he walks in on you, someone is gonna notice.
Ok, I have a mean streak, it might not come to that, but it was fun thinkging of it.
2007-01-02 17:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by tequilagold_32 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This situation could become more serious as your step-brother seems to be somewhat disturbed. He's exhibiting very worrisome behaviour at his age. Unless he has a mental deficiency, he definitely knows that his behaviour is wrong. I suggest that you go to a guidance counsellor/teacher/kids help line to get some assistance. If your parents are not helping you, or your step-brother, then someone else needs to step in. He has an issue with boundaries & the concern is that he may overstep them even further.
2007-01-02 15:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by sceskimo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG, I don't know about that. Sorry I can't be of any help but I would say that he ought to cool it!!! Why in the hell is he walking in on you in the shower or when you're changing??? LOCK the door!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUH! Kind of sounds like you are encouraging his behavior now that I think about it. After it happened once you should have made SURE it would not happen again. Use your head, girl!!!!!
Maybe your mom and step dad need to rethink their decision about no locks...I mean really!!! I would if you were my daughter. You shouldn't have to be going through this with him although his behavior might be that of a "normal" 17 year old boy.
What's really sad here is that it makes you feel weird around him and he should really be a brother to you. He needs to learn how to respect a young lady!
2007-01-02 15:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have told your parents, and they are in denial about it, and you have told him to stop and he isn't then I suggest you go to your school conselor and explain what is going on they will contact your parents and probebly child protective services will get involved , then something will probebly get done
If all else fails then if he walks in on you again slug him in the eye every time he does it, a few black eyes should do the trick
2007-01-03 07:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is not as serious as it seems. . . I'm assuming you're both about 13/14/15.... 1st tell him face to face to stop sexually harrassing you... that will scare the s@##$% out of him because he's not thinking if it in those terms. THEN if that doesn't work, tell him that again right in front of everybody in the house. He will definitely stop then. All teenage boys do this at some time in their life, and if they don't, they wish they did.
2007-01-02 15:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by avp071 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not your real brother, so he could be attracted to you. Also, he's probably at that age where he's curious and has needs. If you spoke to your Step Dad and Mother about it and they haven't talked to him or try to put a stop to it, then I would be concerned. It's not a healthy environment for you. I suggest you discuss this with them again, seriously and let them know how this makes you feel. Good luck!
2007-01-02 15:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by artutina 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're parents should set this straight, if they don't they're idiots. This is innapropriate and he needs to learn boundaries or he'll keep acting in such an innapropriate way. Who knows, maybe he'll do worse in the future... predators start somehwere...
If your parents don't do anything, get the cops involved, the last thing you need is your parents not taking care of you and your best interests or try to shove it aside to keep the illusion of a "happy home"
2007-01-02 16:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yaa might be, it depends upon onlookers what they feel about me. Quality less person like me is always walking miracle in the eyes of others. I feel it but others recognize it. I am lip sealed about myself but others can easily talk and give their remarks for me. Only two person can be walking miracles in my view. 1. A beautiful loving and intelligent girl. and 2 A ugli ignorant and egoist man. Thank you.
2016-05-22 21:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your parents should step in on this one and do something but if they dont you might have to do something on your own like to confront him and dont take the accident story... I would also say that you shouldnt make out in front of him and to buy a lock for your door.
2007-01-02 15:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by icprinces 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋