ive been dating a g uy for a little, and i have feelings for his friend. my boyfriend already suspects theres something going on between us and idk if i should give my boyfriend more of a chance or go with my heart on this one? my boyfriend already basically cheated on me today i found out..
2007-01-02 15:16:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cheated on you than under no circumstances does he deserve you, and obviously you need another guy.
this relationship is over right at the part where you dont like your boyfriend! go with your heart, no matter what!
luck,
cobi
2007-01-02 15:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by clevah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiffany, it's obvious that your relationship is not working for either you or your boyfriend. You said you don't know if you should "give him more of a chance," but ask yourself the question, "Give him a chance to do what?" Cheat on you again? I think your best option is to end your current relationship; however, I don't think it's a great idea to date his friend. Don't move too fast from one relationship to another especially if the guys are friends. How different can these guys be if they're friends? Maybe on the surface they seem like night and day, but inherently they're the same, and I'm sure you will probably go through the same with the one that you did with the other. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." Lose them both, and start dating again. I'm sure there's someone out there who will respect you and love you ONLY.
2007-01-02 23:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by "Princess" Laya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's his boy you plan to get with ya'll may want to discuss this openly and let your guy know how you feel. Point out that his cheating ways are not the reason why, unless you didn't know you had feeling for his boy til after you found out bout the cheating. Anyway find out what is what with the other guy cuz, why tell if he doesn't feel the same. But if you don't wanna be with you guy, don't.
2007-01-02 23:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by mslizzo73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold up. Girl are you serious? Are you really going to stay with a man who is clearly not commited over a guy who you like? This is what Tamera would do.
1) Leave cheating boyfriend
2) Hang with crush
3) Eventually ask crush out
That's what I would do but I'm not you and I can't tell you what to do. So yeah just follow your heart.
2007-01-02 23:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give ur bf another chance, if he cheated on you once he will do it again, believe me I've learned from expirence, and about having feelings for his friend, I wouldn't add fuel to the fire and go down that alley, it'll just put more fuel in the fire and in the end u'll be sorry. I hope you do whats right. I also mention u shouldn't be with his friend because neither of them will have respect for you.
2007-01-02 23:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your heart. I am in the same situation, but the difference is that I am married and am still in love with my ex boyfriend that I dated 4yrs ago. I would really like to be with him. I have a child by my husband and find it hard to just leave him. So take my advice when I say go with your heart because you don't want to end up regreting yourself in the end.
2007-01-02 23:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it time for you to brack up the relationship if he really loved you he wouldn,t had cheated and you are haveing feeling for some one else so brack up and stay low for amonth and start datting the guy your heart is waitting for besides on the jerry springer show the men that says that your cheating is always the one that is doing the cheating [ follow your heart]
2007-01-02 23:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably cheated on you because he couldn't trust you. But, it's not healthy to be in a relationship with someone who cheated on you - so leave, not because of his friend, but because he cheated on you. It's not worth breaking their friendship if you were the cause of distrust.
2007-01-02 23:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with him and tell him that you are concerned with your relationship ask him how he sees your relationship (where its going ect...) then ask him about his cheating why he did it ect... then go on to tell him that you do have feelings for another but you have not acted on it because you would like to give him a fair chance but if he isn't going to be fair to your relationship then its over and you will find someone who is willing to work at a functional relationship.
2007-01-02 23:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by bestadvice101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he doesn't sound like the kind of guy that deserves you, and if he's not the one your heart wants, go for someone else. <3
2007-01-02 23:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋