This guy and I have become really close friends in the past few months... I guess we've been going out very casually and everyone knows that we are "a coulple", but he hasn't made a move yet (no kissing...) In a few days I'll be going to the movie with him and I want to make a move on him... but I don't know how... I've never kissed in a movie theater so I don't really know how I can pull it off smoothly. Can someone PLEASE help????
2007-01-02 15:15:17 · 12 answers · asked by make love not war 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is really sweet (and not GAY)... I know for a fact that he likes me because of what he says to me and how he treats me... he just doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would make the first move on a girl...
2007-01-02 15:27:16 · update #1
A) Make your move. Someone has to go first.
B) It's hard to be too smooth. Welcome to the dark side of gender equality.
Best of luck, and have fun...it will be fine.
(Oh, and you shouldn't pick a "best answer" until after the date...you don't want to give one of us points for giving you advice that bombs.) :p
2007-01-02 15:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by David G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be careful. do you want a kiss or do you want a make-out session where he is trying to put his hands all over you?
and if you make out in a movie theater who is going to see you there?
the best time for a first time kiss in a movie theater is when the movie says the end. you lean over give him a small kiss and thank him for sharing the movie with you and then you stand up in preparation of heading for the door.
this brief kiss on your behalf will usually insure that you at least get a good night kiss when he takes you home.
2007-01-02 23:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, a movie theater is not the most romantic place to kiss. Too noisy and not enough time to talk. My suggestion is you have dinner with the guy and ask him what he wants in a relationship. Tell him you really enjoy his company. It's not even wrong to let the guy know that you like him. Could be he is shy and has not clue that you like him. Good luck to you!
2007-01-02 23:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by JUZWUNDERIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a funny, scary, or touching moment in the movie, reach across him around his head, pull him close, and give him a kiss softly on the side of his neck. If he doesn't get the idea, you have no other option than to just straight up plant one on him. Smoothness be damned.
2007-01-02 23:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I first dated my boyfriend, he was afraid to make a move on me (since my mom was his boss). I basically had to "lead" everything. To get him to kiss me, I laid down next to him and get into his face while we were talking. I finally asked him what he was thinking about and he said kissing me. We then kissed.
Try to take hints to see if he wants to kiss you. In the movie theater, go to hold his hand. You can lean over him to "get" something and go for the kiss. Or you can lean your head on shoulder and then ask him what he is thinking about. Or if he kisses you on the hand/leans on top of your head, pick up your head and kiss him.
2007-01-02 23:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by pumpkinpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the movie, usually waiting till the ride home is better for the first time to first base.
2007-01-02 23:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taking you to a movie, don't worry he's planning on making the first move. If not, just put your head on his shoulder and he should take the initiative.
2007-01-02 23:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well literally you should let him make the move on you so you know that he is feelin you cause you never kno he may just wanna be freinds. i say let him make the move and if after another 2 weeks ask him how he feels about u
2007-01-02 23:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by foodspida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him alone then give him a soft kiss on the lips then tell him you have been waiting to do that for a while then beef up his ego tell him that his kisses are nice
2007-01-02 23:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i had this same problem before and most of the time they will move on to you dont push it or he will feel as you where going to fast so just wait for it
2007-01-02 23:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by blah_bloxz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋