Well the person I'm talking about is my ex-boyfriend. I still talk to even though we're not together. I talk to him as a friend now. But he still has feelings for me and he tells me he loves me and I don't feel the same thing for him. Thats one of the reasons I ended it. I like to talk to him because he is funny and he can make my day sometimes happy and sometimes I feel bad because it feels like I'm draging him along and I think the more I talk to him. I think he still thinks there is hope for us to get back together. So should I stop talking to him. So he can get over me and find someone else.
I would like some advice and don't be rude ok.
2007-01-02 15:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by Gloomy Dark Fairy Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is really hard to be friends right after a break up. You need to let the emotions and the hurt heel. I don't think anyone can tell you to stay away or not to stay away, but one thing is clear -- Don't lead him on and make him think there is a possiblity of getting back together with him. You need to make that totally clear from the get go.
2007-01-02 16:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your decision by asking him how he feels about everything, like does he still want to talk and have you as a friend even if you won't get back together. Ask him what would make him happier if you guys stopped talking or continued still talking. You still want to talk to him but don't want to hurt him, so let him make the decision he'd like to make so that you don't feel guilty and you know this is what he wants. Just let him know that this decision is up to him and you have his happiness in mind. Another suggestion is suggest to him that you don't talk for a while so that he has his space to get over you and then when he's over you, you two can start talking again and be friends.
2007-01-02 15:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a couple of these relationships, and they suck. =/
Don't stop talking to him if he makes you happy and you enjoy his personality. If you like the relationship you guys have on a friendship level, just tell him that you're doing fine as friends, and just simply tell him that you don't feel a romantic bond between you and him anymore.. but that you do enjoy his friendship, and you'd like to keep that.
If he likes you enough, he will understand, and respect that you only want to be friends with him. If he gets angry at you for telling the truth, then it's his loss if he doesn't want to be friends anymore.
2007-01-02 15:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drag him along. End it. It will be good for both of you. Move on. He'll learn to live a life on his own and find his own happiness. You should too.
2007-01-02 15:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that being a friend is a tremendous decision, but if anything happened to threaten his or your future lives break all ties with him.
2007-01-02 15:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if dint like him,leave him alone!his not a clown to make you smile every time you sad.
or just give it to me.what his address?ha... ha... ha im joking!
2007-01-02 15:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by sannyzideup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋