Should i go with him?

Question

there's this junior in my class that really likes my alot for me and not for my looks. he's also really a good person that doesn't get into trouble. the thing is is that i'm a freshman. he's 2 years older than me and i'm 14. i haven't told him that i like him yet even though i do....should i go after him?

Answer 1

go for it but be carefull you are too young. Well maybe the best time is to get someone in your own age range.

Answer 2

I always dated older guys because young men always seem to be immature but I don't know what level your on, if you are a mature 14 yr old then why settle for less..but remember make sure he likes you for you and not just trying to get something else because you are a freshie..he can be misleading you..he is older and know about the game just follow the flow and don't let him use you take it from someone that went with a 16 yr old at 14!!! good luck

Answer 3

Child you are too young to think about relationships with boys! Statistics prove that young girls your age are not emotionally mature enough to handle them. Sex is usually involved and that opens doors to pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases including the virus that leads to cervical cancer! Save the heart aches for later when you are old enough to begin thinking of marriage. For now find yourself a group of girls to hang with, go to church and get involved with the youth group, extracurricular school activities, the YWCA. Do not tie yourself down to one person when you do not even know what you want in life yet. Experience life first then after you know what you want then look for someone that will enjoy it with you. Until then there is an entire world out there to see and I would pray you see if before you get tied down to the tiresomeness of adult life! Don't give in to adolescent pressures....be free....be different and explore the world!

Answer 4

try to stay in contact with him. The, when your older, and 2 years seems like a reasonable difference, move in for the kill. Right now, I'm having the same problem. take my advice, trust me. It'll work.

Answer 5

its fine to date someone just a couple years older than you, most girls are younger than there boyfriend. but dont take the relationship too serious, im not saying to cheat on him and not care about him, im just saying you're too young to have a serious relationship. most girls your age think they are "in love" but its usually just "puppy love". young people always say its real love, but its not. someone always get hurt later on down the road...... anyway......it wouldnt hurt to tell him how you feel, in a letter or in person. then let him make a move, if he doesnt then just move on.

Answer 6

I think you truly have already answered your own question..... It's all in the heart & gut feeling , to give it a try and take it slow and become best friends first who just cannot not be around eachother each day !!!!!!!!!
Best of luck....I say YES.

Answer 7

No, don't pursue him. You're too young. He'll appreciate you much more and much longer if you just remain friends. Build on that and when you're a little older maybe he'll be your date on graduation or something. Enjoy him!!!

Answer 8

Nah, look people in ur own age, your too young, you dont know whats really in him

im a gentlement to ladies, but i slapped so many ***ches that you cant even say their names

Answer 9

if you think hes the one then yeah.....age doesn't matter as long as you two like each other...no obstacle can make things bad for you two if this is real......yeah you should go for him ONLY if you know him really well and if YOU THINK HES THE ONE<3

Answer 10

YES you should go out with him if hes a good person then ya!